i have never had an orgasim with a guy? is there something wrong with me?
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It may not be a physical problem.
I think that most of it is in the right approach. Yours and the guy’s. How much effort does he put into giving you pleasure? Is there foreplay? How much is your clitoris being stimulated before and during intercourse? After all, clitoris stimulation seems to be the most important in having an orgasm.
Try different positions, watch videos that may stimulate you and your partner, try some of the toys-I find vibrators helpful especially if a guy is the one who plays with it and my vagina.
Another problem is if you had a bad experience from before, if somebody had a more violent approach that you didn’t like and you fear it now. In that case, you need to let your partner know about the situation and you too should work on it together. If this is a problem and you can’t overcome it by yourself, then you may need someone to talk about it.
If there is anything else you would like to know, feel free to ask, I will try to help you if I can.
I think that most of it is in the right approach. Yours and the guy’s. How much effort does he put into giving you pleasure? Is there foreplay? How much is your clitoris being stimulated before and during intercourse? After all, clitoris stimulation seems to be the most important in having an orgasm.
Try different positions, watch videos that may stimulate you and your partner, try some of the toys-I find vibrators helpful especially if a guy is the one who plays with it and my vagina.
Another problem is if you had a bad experience from before, if somebody had a more violent approach that you didn’t like and you fear it now. In that case, you need to let your partner know about the situation and you too should work on it together. If this is a problem and you can’t overcome it by yourself, then you may need someone to talk about it.
If there is anything else you would like to know, feel free to ask, I will try to help you if I can.
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