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I just got out of a 3 year relationship where I was having sex on average 2-3 times a week. However the relationship broke down and now im with another girl but when she was getting her kit off id go from initially being hard to going soft.

Of course to avoid embaresment I went to the toilet to get it up again but came instead of getting it hard. I dont know whats happening to me...

Healthy, fit, never smoked, usually pretty sexually active and now im having problems?
You were in a relationship for three years. Could you still be thinking about this girl?
Maybe your really not sexually attracted to this new person.
Is there anything that is pressing on your mind?
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See thats what I thought as well, but I honestly feel like im completely over her. The other thing is that my new gf is rediculously hot, im definitely attracted to her but now im having these problems.



I went for a sexual health checkup with my local GP, he believes it may be due to a urethra infection and has put me on doxycyclin. Now im having trouble maintaining an erection even if I just like try in the shower. I totally have no idea whats happening to me.
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Could she be "to hot"???
Maybe she intimidates you in some way. Do you feel that you have to perform for her?
Is she more experienced than you?
I don't mean to be a jerk here but, i hope she is not expecting something that maybe you are not ready to give her just yet.
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Same same to be honest, ive just come out of two sexual relationships in the last 5 years so its a bit odd to be having problems such as these. The antibiotics I have been taking have not healed the burning when i take a piss as this was outlined as the main source of the problem by my GP. Now i dont know if its a sudden erectile dsyfunction, personal or psychological (ie from such a long relationship) or due to this unknown "infection" or even due to the medication.



I have not heard of antibiotics affecting sexual desire...I personally do not feel its psychological because i dont seem to be able to hold an erection regardless of whether or not shes there. Its a puzzel for sure and its damn embaressing....
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