I m a 33 years old married woman have 2 kids . my problem is that my husband comes in night at 10 or 10:30 and after eating dinner about at 10:45 he sleeps and we have no separate room for kids .my kids are 13 year old daughter, and 12 year old son . we all sleep in the same room . now i cant sleep in nights since last few weeks b coz i want to do sex . but he sleep . i know after a hard working he feel tired but where i go ? i m preety and young so most of the persons wants to friend ship with me and say that if i leave my husband he will marry with me . but i cant leave my hubby b coz when i think about my children . i stopp my self to taking any decission . b coz my decission wil effect on their personalities . we have a kids room but my inlaws live in that room and when i demand to give back my children room . they refused . and scolled me a lot . my hubby cant say to them for leaving my children's room plz reply me what i do?
Do your kids have friends they can go have a sleepover with once and awhile? They are old enough to go stay at a friend's house and when they are not home, you and your husband can have some privacy.
Other ideas, get a tent for the kids so they can "camp out" in the yard when the weather is nice and there's no school the next day. Kids love doing stuff like that.
If your inlaws living with you is going to be permanent maybe you should start looking for a three bedroom apartment or apply for section eight housing assistance.
Another option, since your inlaws are there with the kids, you and your husband can always sneak out for some romance away from home. I had a lot of fun on blankets out in secluded areas at night with a guy when niether of us had our own place and didn't want anyone to hear.
Other ideas, get a tent for the kids so they can "camp out" in the yard when the weather is nice and there's no school the next day. Kids love doing stuff like that.
If your inlaws living with you is going to be permanent maybe you should start looking for a three bedroom apartment or apply for section eight housing assistance.
Another option, since your inlaws are there with the kids, you and your husband can always sneak out for some romance away from home. I had a lot of fun on blankets out in secluded areas at night with a guy when niether of us had our own place and didn't want anyone to hear.