Thank you. I always have a strong pain on one side around the time of ovulation and defiantly felt this on the 13th of Dec as I was at a friends dinner party and remember the pain well every month as it's so intense. I also had a crazy shooting pain on the morning of the 16th of Dec it felt like it was in my belly button and bits and I remember this pain when I was pregnant with my son so hopefully this is a good sign it is my partners as I didn't sleep with guy 2 until the 18th. I won't need a DNA test when the baby is born as the guys are different races and I imagine it will be quite easy to tell. I really hope it is my partners everything is pointing towards that but wondered if that was because that's what I hope for. I did a clear blue digital on the 28th not in the morning like it says but in the afternoon and got pregnant 1-2 weeks and that's what made me point more towards guy 2 and panic more
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I feel an intense pain on one side around the time of ovulation every month and definitely felt that pain on the 13th of Dec as I was at a dinner party and remember the pain being there. Also on the 16th of Dec when I was on my way to work I got a sharp pain that felt like it went up thorough my lady bits and into my belly button. I remember thinking at the time the only time I ever experienced this pain before was when I was pregnant with my son. It only lasted a few seconds but made me stop in my tracks. This was 2 days before I slept with #2. I have been feeling like it is more likely to be my partners baby but wasn't sure if I was just trying to convince myself because that's what I want it to be. I won't need a DNA test as both the guys are different races so I would imagine it will be quite easy to tell if everything is successful in this pregnancy. Will a scan help with the dates or not as it's very close both guys being 8 days apart? I will have to have a few early scans because of my past history of 5 miscarriages. Thanks
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Hi Dan
Thank you for you last response. I have an ultrasound next weds do you think this will help me to know either way?
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I don't expect the ultrasound to "help" you know. You already know your dates so nothing should change.
Good luck.
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Sorry to go on but with all the dates and the ovulation pain I felt on the 13th of Dec do you think it is my partners baby? I don't know if I should tell him and ruin our relationship or just wait and hope that it is his baby. I'm so scared that I will go to the scan on Wednesday and they will make me less weeks then I think I am. Is there anyway I could of ovulated on the 12th- 13th and the egg have survived until the 18th?
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Loz,
Dates are based on your LMP, not when you actually got pregnant. Nobody, not your doctor, nobody, can tell when that actually occurred. You know when your LMP was so the dates should not change.
If you did ovulate on the 13th, likely, then it is very unlikely the egg survived until the 18 and in that case your partner is the father.
Hope it helps.
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Hi Dan
Had my scan this morning and they confirmed me as 6 weeks pregnant and a fetal heartbeat was seen. She also confirmed that I did ovulate from my left ovary where I felt the pain on the 13th of Dec. Thank you for your advice I too now believe this is my partners baby thank you
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I am I'm a similar situation as everyone who has posted in this thread...my bf and I were going through issues with him cheating on me in September...I broke up with him although we still lived together and started having a fling with someone else I guess I was just trying to numb the pain. ..well in October my bf and I patched things up he went away on a short trip, returned Oct 13 we had unprotected sex and he came in me since there was already a risk of pregnancy we just continued to have unprotected sex and he continued going in me until the 20th...I had sex with my fling Oct 17 we fooled around a bit at first without a condom maybe about a min or two then he put one on with spermicide he couldn't come so we stopped and that was the end of that...I'm certain I ovulated oct 18th as I keep tratracking every month and my dating ultrasound was right on point at 6weeks 5days when I went for an early scan am I now 14 weeks pregnant and afraid that while I was fooling around with my fling some precum or something couldn't gone in me...my bf was the only one who came in me during my fertile week though I think its more than likely he is the father...any opinions?
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I am I'm a similar situation as everyone who has posted in this thread...my bf and I were going through issues with him cheating on me in September...I broke up with him although we still lived together and started having a fling with someone else I guess I was just trying to numb the pain. ..well in October my bf and I patched things up he went away on a short trip, returned Oct 13 we had unprotected sex and he came in me since there was already a risk of pregnancy we just continued to have unprotected sex and he continued going in me until the 20th...I had sex with my fling Oct 17 we fooled around a bit at first without a condom maybe about a min or two then he put one on with spermicide he couldn't come so we stopped and that was the end of that...I'm certain I ovulated oct 18th as I keep track every month and my dating ultrasound was right on point at 6weeks 5days when I went for an early scan I am now 14 weeks pregnant and afraid that while I was fooling around with my fling some precum or something couldve gone in me...my bf was the only one who came in me during my fertile week though I think its more than likely he is the father...any opinions?
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Hi Guest,
It is more likely that your boyfriend is the father but there is a chance it was the fling. With any sexual contact there is a risk of pregnancy and it was when you'd be at/near your peak fertility.
A DNA test can confirm paternity.
Don't focus on the dates. Dates are based on your LMP, not from when you actually became pregnant. Even then, it takes several days for a pregnancy to occur. You'd be 14 weeks 4 days along as of today.
Hope it helps.
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Yes it helps a bit I'm thinking the same as u are...thank u..I will do a test after the baby is born just to ease my mind and be sure as it expensive to do it while pregnant
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OK so I'm 13 wks now.... n I'm still getting messed up results... I keep trying to figure out who's its who's.... the oct 11 or the oct 24....it doesn't make sense to me... this is driving me crazy
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The 11th Barbie. You KNOW when your period started. The 24th would have been WELL PAST when the egg would be viable - you were already pregnant then!
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