Hi Barbie I feel you pain. I am too driving myself insane with worry that it may not be my partners baby and my family will be broken up over a stupid mistake.
I had a bad belly ache the day after I had sex with the other guy on the 18th and have experienced this same kind of belly ache each time after intercourse before finding out I conceived so that alone has me worried. Yet everything else points to it being my partners baby really. Unless the ovulation pain I felt on the 13th of Dec was days before ovulation actually occurred. I had the pain on both Friday 12th and Sat 13th. What are your thoughts on this Dan? I am going for another scan on Thursday not that it will help me to know either way I'm just so scared.
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I still think it is your partners baby Loz. Just based on timing.
You can have discomfort after having sex.
Good luck with the ultrasound.
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Thank you Dan. I do really hope so but I guess of course I am going to have doubt it's only natural and no less then I deserve for getting myself in this awful situation in the first place. Based on dates and the pain I felt around the time of ovulation it is definitely my partners baby I think I also had a slight pinkish discharge on the 19th Dec day after guy 2 which I guess could of been implantation.
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Yay scan today 8 weeks 4 days and everything still going great.
What a relief.
I know you say ultrasound dates don't make a difference but surly if I had not ovulated until later and conceived on the 18th when I went for my scan 2 weeks ago at 6 weeks it would have been too early to see a heartbeat as late ovulation and conception wouldn't tally up with the fetal measurements and a nice healthy heartbeat seen at 6 weeks 1 day because it would of in fact only been 5 weeks had I conceived a week later then calculated dates? Does this make sense? Or am I just clinging on to any bit of hope?
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8 weeks 4 days is correct for your LMP of 1 December. The ultrasound and LMP agree. They are still basing the date on your LMP Loz.
The timing works for it to be your partners baby - still.
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I won't need to as it will be pretty obvious once the baby arrives who the father is but thanks anyway.
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Maybe, maybe not. Even if you're dealing with different races the baby can have prominent features from either parent.
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Yes this is true. It's all such a mess I can't sleep for worrying what the outcome of this will be. As the guy I slept with is extremely dark skinned I would say there would definitely be an obvious difference to my blonde haired blue eyed son I have already but as you say Dan this may not be so obvious. I'm scared my whole family will be torn apart. All I can think about every second. Over analyzing every aspect.
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Had another scan today and everything is still great. They are saying the CRL makes me 10 weeks 6 days instead of 10 weeks 4 days
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I know I don't mind anyway I would only be worried if the dates were going the other way. So pleased everything is developing well after 6 miscarriages this 10 weeks has been worrying. All I care about it having a nice healthy baby. I found out during my last pregnancy which unfortunately didn't work out that I have the JKA antibody do you have any knowledge of this Dan as I don't have a clue and no one has explained anything to me
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jKA is the Kidd Antibody. It's helps move urea through blood cells.
It can cause problems during transfusions and in the newborn by causing hemolytic (blood) problems.
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12 weeks tomorrow. Ended up in hospital today had a major bleed this morning which has slowed but hasn't stopped. Have no idea why they scanned me and baby was dancing around and waving with a nice healthy heartbeat. Was absolutely petrified I was going to lose them. Still can't really relax now as I don't know the reason. Have my 12 week scan on Tues so fingers crossed all is still well then.
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