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I went out with my ex, I'll call him Brian, during college for two years. We played house in an apartment we rented together. Things sort of changed and he had to be transferred to another college. For a few months we talked via phone and Skype and he was always asking me to visit him and ask if I could get transferred to his college but they didn't have my course there and i was always busy with my job and school so I never got to visit him. We lost contact for a while but still considered ourselves together. Sometimes he'd call me and be very upset saying he really misses me and I would nearlly cry because I really wanted to see him but couldn't. Then I managed to get some time of after exams and decided to surprise him. I flew upstate to see him, he had told me where he lived and when I knocked on the door a woman answered the door. I didn't think anything of it since I thought she was a room mate. I asked if he was home and i was told he wasn't. She then asked why I wanted to see him and that she was his FIANCÉ! I didn't know what to say and was in shock so I just left. I found a hotel and staid there for a few hours then got the next flight home. I was so distraught and betrayed. I got a phone call and Brian was apologising and saying he was really sorry and things just happened. I was to hurt and hung up on him. I haven't spoken to him since. I've found relationships difficult and have been hert broken because of my lack of trust with boyfriends. It's been nearlly 7 years and out of the blue Brian contacted me. He says he was reflecting and decided to see how i was and messages me on Facebook. I was unsure and it brought back alot of pain. I acted neutral and platonic saying how well I was doing and that I had just ended a relationship and he said he was sorry to hear. He then mentioned he too was going through divorce. I didn't reply for a few weeks. Me and Brian's sister Aubrey used to be really good friends so I called her up. Apparently Brian and his wife Amy had gotten married because he got her pregnant. Aubrey also said that the marriage was always strained and thy he had 2 kids both boys. I didn't tell her I was contacted by Brian and asked her not to tell him I was talking to her. Basically this has been going in for the last few months and I eventually re united with Brian for a dinner. I still feel chemistry between us and he told me he stopped thinking about me. We went for a walk and I told him how hurt i was that he was always asking me to live with him even though he was seeing Amy. He said it was a really rough time and he didn't know what he wanted. So it's been a few months and we've been seeing eachother really often, I've found that we only live an hour away from eachother now since i relocated where I live a year ago. I'm really happy but I can't shrug off the hurt he's put me through and the fct that he has 2 other kids, I don't mind them at all and they are fantastic boys but I'm only starting my life and I'm happy with how far I am in life so far. There's just this feeling of hurt and betrayal holdi me back. What should I do?

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Sorry I meant he * never stopped thinking of me.
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