My husband is a recovering heroin addict and recently he has been leaving the house every morning before I wake up. I wake up around 7am and I don't know where he going he won't tell me, he doesn't have a job and has been very crabby lately. I am pretty sure that he is using again but I have know idea where he is getting the money for it. we have seperate bank acounts and I don't keep a credit card or cash or anything around. Does anyone have any ideas what he is doing?
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I really feel for what you're going through. I had a similar one-time event happen to me in a previous marriage and I had literally no idea where he was. CRAaaaaaZiness!!!!! We were out of town for his only sister's wedding, and you'd think he could at least get it together for that, but he couldn't. Found out later than he'd run off with a "friend" and was having some fun shopping, spending our cash, etc... Turns out he went off his bipolar meds and went into a severe manic state and was doing extreme things like overspending out of our joint accounts, and eventually refused to fly home with he, and instead wanted to shack up with this low class trash girl.
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Hi mammacarter! I will try and make this short and to the point..if you think he is using again, maybe confronting him ASAP might help get him back on the right track quickly instead of him sinking deeper into active addiction. As for the money side of it..an addict will find the money, some of them doing anything to make money so they will not get dope sick. The faster he gets back into treatment, the easier it will be on him and you! On another side...you say he is always going out early in the morning, and my first thought was he on a methadone clinic?I do not know all the details of his active addiction, his sobriety, etc. to know exactly what he is doing, but I do know one thing, and I am very well known for, is meeting someone, speaking to them briefly, and will know if they are on drugs, handing me a load of BS or just out right lying and it's kind of like that old saying says.."It takes one to know one...." and I am indeed a recovering alcoholic/addict. One thing I want to add...if you choose to approach him about what is going on...try not to accuse him, instead ask him what is going on and that you are there to help him and that he can trust you and talk to you! I wish you well
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Thank you. I now know he is using again and I think I have to leave him. He stole my checkbook and ran my account into the ground and I have so much debt now. He just got our car impounded and he is giving me BS on why they impounded it. I don't know what to do. We have a child and I can't even get diapers Because he has messed everything up. I'm so upset. I love him but can't trust him
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