Hi,
iam 27yr old and i am getting married next month, we are planning not to have kids for 2yrs from marriage.
I would like know how to stop pregnancy(2yrs) without any side affects and with sexual pleasure.
Kindly advice me the pros and cons on pregancy.
Thanks
Manasija
iam 27yr old and i am getting married next month, we are planning not to have kids for 2yrs from marriage.
I would like know how to stop pregnancy(2yrs) without any side affects and with sexual pleasure.
Kindly advice me the pros and cons on pregancy.
Thanks
Manasija
Wow. This covers a lot of ground.
Not knowing your cultural background or issues, there are lots of options.
Try consulting with Planned Parenthood or similar family planning agencies for the list that's most available in your country.
However, the list includes:
Birthcontrol pills for her
Condoms for you
Foam for her
Spermacide jelly for you both
Abstinence (not really practical though)
Some will suggest Rhythm methods of timing your relations, but I DO NOT believe in this as successful or reliable.
There are other practices such as mutual masturbation... oral sex... and other techniques as well.
And I haven't even scratched the surface of IUDs, injections, and implants.
Really, you need to sit down and discuss this with a marriage counselor and your bride-to-be. She needs to be involved in these decisions as well, so that you are both on the same page.
I urge you to consider positive action, but your local laws, culture and practices may limit some of these options.
Good luck.
Let us know what you decide, OK? 8-|
Not knowing your cultural background or issues, there are lots of options.
Try consulting with Planned Parenthood or similar family planning agencies for the list that's most available in your country.
However, the list includes:
Birthcontrol pills for her
Condoms for you
Foam for her
Spermacide jelly for you both
Abstinence (not really practical though)
Some will suggest Rhythm methods of timing your relations, but I DO NOT believe in this as successful or reliable.
There are other practices such as mutual masturbation... oral sex... and other techniques as well.
And I haven't even scratched the surface of IUDs, injections, and implants.
Really, you need to sit down and discuss this with a marriage counselor and your bride-to-be. She needs to be involved in these decisions as well, so that you are both on the same page.
I urge you to consider positive action, but your local laws, culture and practices may limit some of these options.
Good luck.
Let us know what you decide, OK? 8-|
The only thing i can suggest would be the pill. Some women experience no ill effects while some do not tolerate it well. You take one at the exact time each day and your 99.% pregnancy free. The only way to avoid pregnancy is the obvious. The pill does not interfere with pleasure.
Condoms sometimes interfere with pleasure and they can get annoying every single time you have sex with your husband/wife, withdrawl is not good at all and is thought to be a form of birth control. It is not.
Rhythm method means you have to very accurate with your cycle and know exactly when your ovulating. Your cycle has got to be very regular to use this form of birth control.
There are IUD's intrauterine devices which are inserted into your cervix to prevent pregnancy. If inserted correctly they do not interfere with pleasure either.
Check with your Dr. to see what he thinks is best for the both of you.
Good luck to you and your up coming wedding.
Condoms sometimes interfere with pleasure and they can get annoying every single time you have sex with your husband/wife, withdrawl is not good at all and is thought to be a form of birth control. It is not.
Rhythm method means you have to very accurate with your cycle and know exactly when your ovulating. Your cycle has got to be very regular to use this form of birth control.
There are IUD's intrauterine devices which are inserted into your cervix to prevent pregnancy. If inserted correctly they do not interfere with pleasure either.
Check with your Dr. to see what he thinks is best for the both of you.
Good luck to you and your up coming wedding.
Thanks for the great summary, bbfeet9!
I'd like to again state that the so-called Rhymth method and withdrawl methods are not birth control. They are GAMBLING... :$
We have a name for people who practice this.... it's called "Parents"! :'(
(I used the condom for almost 20 years without a failure and without feeling that I had been missing anything. I'll agree that it can be more intense without a condom, but you can train yourself to enjoy anything... and the pleasure of knowing you are safe and in control of your sperm outweighed any lack of thrill. The downside was just too great for me.)
Talk to a medical advisor/doctor/nurse about your options. But whatever you choose, use it consistantly.
I'd like to again state that the so-called Rhymth method and withdrawl methods are not birth control. They are GAMBLING... :$
We have a name for people who practice this.... it's called "Parents"! :'(
(I used the condom for almost 20 years without a failure and without feeling that I had been missing anything. I'll agree that it can be more intense without a condom, but you can train yourself to enjoy anything... and the pleasure of knowing you are safe and in control of your sperm outweighed any lack of thrill. The downside was just too great for me.)
Talk to a medical advisor/doctor/nurse about your options. But whatever you choose, use it consistantly.
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