Please no bashing, me and my husband put a lot of thought into it before finally deciding it was the right choice, both cried and still mourning. But also we have needs. I had an aspiration sunction abortion a week and a day ago I barely blead only spotted, and had no cramps or anything ( not bleeding anymore). I felt back to normal the next day except the emotional problem. Anyways the doctor told me no sex for 4 weeks, I started birth control the following Sunday after the abortion and so me and my husband had sex last night ( pain free) and even used a condom. I'm just worried I caused a problem in my cervix or anywhere inside me. I feel fine but since they told me to wait the whole 4 weeks just scares me. I don't want to get an infection or affect my fertility. Helpppppp!!!!