sex for the first time

Hi anytime its up to you , but don't forget the Condom , Enjoy 

If you are a virgin, STAY A VIRGIN!!! What are the chances he will marry you? Why would a farmer buy the cow if he can get his milk for free? What kind of commitment would he have if he can have the frosting without any promise in return? To many people are giving their bodies away for free. If you think about it, aren't you committing adultery on your future husband? Have some respect for who you are, you have the potential to be someone VERY SPECIAL!!! Someone reserving a very special gift for a righteous man who deserves to be the first man to enter you, a Holy Temple Saved specifically for him (Sort of Speak). I promise you from past experience, I have been married 5 times, one was an annullment, and this marriage now was to a Virgin. Our wedding night was the most special night of my life. I felt ashamed because I hadn't saved myself for her. I was older than she was, however she was PURE AND CLEAN AND INNOCENT! I wasn't. I have taught her a lot, and she has given me the most precious thing in the world, herself unspotted. She is without question the best lover I have ever had. Why, because she is definatly making up for lost time, she respects herself, and she respected me enough to wait for me and choose that "SPECIAL MAN" she thought was worthy of her. I can tell you I worked for it, I opened doors, I didn't get a kiss for our first 3 "Official Dates", but we danced and met each other at dances and activities for about 3 weeks prior to our first date. She was special, and I knew it, and because of it, I treated her differently, SPECIAL, and it made all the difference in the world, and our relationship became based on friendship first, not our lips, or bodies, and we became best friends first, and once we married we added that to our relationship. I promise you it compounded what we already had and made it 4 times better, and we have the greatest relationship and marriage I have had, and my first marriage was 17 years. Live a chaste life, and when you marry, screw like rabbits!!! I promise you it will be worth it! If I knew way back then what I know now, I never would have had sex til marriage. It makes a huge difference and your wedding night will be special, not just another toss in the sheets with the label "Married" on it. It will be AWESOME!!! And you won't have to worry about getting pregnant, you won't have to worry about your life getting ruined, or anything like that. Live your life right, and wait, please wait! Do it for him, and do it for you. Especially for your future husband. If it is him, he will thank you, and if he isn't the right guy and you tell him you want to wait, I guarentee you will find out in a couple weeks to a month, and then you will be glad you told him you want to wait. At least give it that long and see that I'm right, and you will know what I mean. Good guys, real good guys are few and far between. Be careful.