Yes, Chris, that's perfectly normal. As for having a sensitive penis head, although it may seem like a disadvantage, it means that you will derive pleasure from having sex. You do not want to make it less sensitive. With time, and sexual intercourse, you will become less sensitive anywya. Plus, you'll be using a condom which is going to take away a bit of sensitivity anyway, so that should help as well. Did you have other questoins? I'm glad to help!
Im just worried because for my first time having sex, i dont want to have to stop because it feels really uncomfortable. Will a condom take away most discomfort from the head of my penis being very sensitive? Also, is there a way i can somehow get over the pain? I want my first time have sex to be perfect and not embarrising. Thanks and sorry for all these questions, i just want to get all my worries out of the way. I feel so embarresed about my body because i also have two types of spots aswell, i have white spots all over my penis, inside the foreskin & all over my testicles. I also have these painless red like blood spots where my pubic hairs are (i havnt shaved them before).
Chris, let me be honest with you. Your first time will probably not be perfect! But hey, when you took your first steps you fell on your butt, when you first got behind the wheel of a car you probably flooded the engine, so don't expect sex to go perfectly. It's going to be fine! Everyone has had an awkward first time. Second, yes, the condom will probably take a lot of the sensitivity so you won't have to worry about that.
Do a quick google search for Fordyce spots. Is that what the white spots look like? I'm not quite sure what the red spots are though. Can you describe them better?
Do a quick google search for Fordyce spots. Is that what the white spots look like? I'm not quite sure what the red spots are though. Can you describe them better?
Fordyce spots is one of them, as for the red spots its hard to explain. Above my pubic hair i have alot of red spots about 1mm in height and width. They are painless and cause me no trouble except curiosity. They are vertually impossible to pop so i dont know what to do. Ive had them for about 2-3 years now.
The red spots are awfully unusual so I think that it might be a good idea to talk to a doctor about it the next time you see one. Do NOT pop them though! It does sometimes make it bad for you. Keep me posted on what the doctor says, okay?
Hi chris,
i have to agree with healthnfitnessguy here. Maybe the best option for you would be to go to see a doctor. They are not bothering you, so it is not something urgent, but it would be good to check them out sometime. See what your doctor has to say about that.
First sexual intercourse will be something nice, but it won't be as good as latter sexual experience. It is often hard for many when having their first sex. Do you have any more questions about this?
i have to agree with healthnfitnessguy here. Maybe the best option for you would be to go to see a doctor. They are not bothering you, so it is not something urgent, but it would be good to check them out sometime. See what your doctor has to say about that.
First sexual intercourse will be something nice, but it won't be as good as latter sexual experience. It is often hard for many when having their first sex. Do you have any more questions about this?
Isnt there a place where you can walk in without an appointment and get a check-up? I really dont want to tell my parents and make them take me to a doctor. I would rather do this by myself.
If you live in a country with universal healthcare, perhaps. If you're in the US, that's not really going to be an option. But if you're embarrassed about it, you can tell your parents that you are having an issue that you need to see a doctor for and that you'd prefer not to talk about it. I'm sure that they'd respect that. What do you think?
I live in the UK and we have NHS which covers all of europe, would i be able to do that? My parents would want to know first why i want to see a doctor so i wont bother asking them. I would prefer to do it myself
As far as I know (and I think that NHS is only in the UK, that's why N stands for National ;)) you don't need parental consent but I'm not sure. I understand not wanting to talk to your parents but really, what if this turns out to be a serious issue? I'm not saying it is but I'm not a doctor--it well could be. THe longer you wait, the worse it could get. It is better to just see the doctor. Does that make sense?
The doctor is would be a very good option fort you. And you should be ashamed of your parents. If you feel comfortable just talk to one of them. Maybe it would be easier to talk to your father about this.
And I think also that NHS just covers UK, not hole Europe. But this shouldn't concern you, you are from UK and that is important right now. :-)
When you have some news post so we know how are you doing.
Best of luck.
And I think also that NHS just covers UK, not hole Europe. But this shouldn't concern you, you are from UK and that is important right now. :-)
When you have some news post so we know how are you doing.
Best of luck.
Ok, i will consider going to the doctors but i have found out there are special NHS clinics where you can walk in without an appointment and there is one near me. I just have a question to ask (very embarrassing), last friday when i was in the bath i was retracting my foreskin and then i masturbated. Now, when i retract my foreskin i have either smegma or shampoo stuck on the head of my penis and underneath my foreskin. It hurts when i try to get it off because im abit sensitive around that area i have to try and scrape it off but it just doesnt move. Ive been taking baths regulary to try and get it off but yet it still remains. Please help me with this one, ive heard its dangorous to have smegma there but apparantly it comes off easily? this doesnt.
First just want to quote what I found:
"One study found that subjects who retracted the foreskin when bathing were less likely to have smegma accumulation."
As you can see retracting your skin while taking a bath will lower the chance of you getting a smegma. I'm not sure how you mean that it does not move?
"One study found that subjects who retracted the foreskin when bathing were less likely to have smegma accumulation."
As you can see retracting your skin while taking a bath will lower the chance of you getting a smegma. I'm not sure how you mean that it does not move?
circumcision isnt that big a deal. i had it done when i was born and not because of religion. although sex is better once the foreskin has loosened up, not having one is easier to maintain. im not sure which country this is based in, but all my friends in the US are cercumsized and none of us are jewish.
Well this is not just religious thing. It is consider a health issue also. But to be honest I don't think that there is difference. It is just up to you if you will take care of you penis or not. I just don't like the thing where they cut a skin of the babies penis. I can't imagine how much does this hurt.