I am a 20 year old student who had an abortion 3 weeks ago... I have a boyfriend who is not one to show his emotions so therefore i felt i was going through this abortion alone as he never talked to me about it. I regret how quickly i had the abortion because i never had a chance to think, one day i was at the hospital seeing how many weeks i was and then in the next day for the first medical abortion pill. It happened so fast that i never (i know it sounds stupid) but i never had a chance to say goodbye- how can you love something that wasnt meant to be. throughout the termination. Its like we have to pretend nothing has happened. My boyfriend kept saying its nothing, itll be over soon but now our relationship is suffering. He admitted the other day that he hasnt been open with me and admitted he wasnt there for me emotionally and he expects me to be open with him! I cant forgive him for making me feel like i was and am going through this on my own. Im very good at covering things up but he always knows when something is bothering me. If he wasnt there for me throughout that - worse possible situation i think- then what happens next time! I love him and i know he loves me but i cant forgive him. Should i let him go? Please help. I dont know what to do :(
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Dont let him go. The two of you need to sit down and ask him and tell him that if it bothered him if if he says no... he is probably lying. You just need to make him tell you the truth and tell him it has been getting in the way of your relationship.
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