Hi, I'm a 39 year old female and I've been taking cymbalta for almost four months now. I started at 30 mgs the first month to 60 mgs since. I've  had a roller coaster ride of side effects from horrible migraines, night sweats, being gittery, really tired or wide awake, throwing up, nausea, loss of appetite, anxious, and none to very high sex drive. I'm just all over the place lol!! My depression is better and it's definitely helped my anxiety. I do have more good days then bad but I am thinking their might be something that'd work better.