I'm 31 and a bi male. First of all, I am not an anal virgin by any means. When I was stimulating myself with my big 3 inch around dildo, I noticed a trace amount of blood on the dildo and freaked out. This was all before climax, but I wiped myself and noticed a little more dryed up blood mixed with a very small amount of stool. I will say I probably didn't use enough lube. It has entirely stopped now and very little pain, and there was absolutely zero stains after a minute or two of clean up. Should I see a doctor about this?
Hi David,
It could be anything. You may have a hemorrhoid or it could just be due to some trauma to the tissues from not using enough lube. They are very vascular and bleed easily.
Keep watching it. Give it a few days to heal and then be sure to use plenty of lube.
If it continues, see your doctor.
Hope it helps.
Thanks. I am wondering too if it may be my IBS acting up. I had a very large stool(one of the largest I've ever passed) that was a green/brown mix this afternoon. Then, I had diarrhea that had a brown and almost yellow/orange color in liquid form. I am a little concerned.
Well, happened again. I guess I can't use the big guy for awhile. I started with the small one and was just fine. I do have some back pain too. Not sure if it is related. I hadn't use this toy in awhile. Had started back on it last week and was fine. Last two times not so much. Getting a little worried. I did wait 3 days. No bleeding at all in between insertions although I did have diarrhea Thurs. night pretty bad.
Go easy or a bit. You may need more than 3 days too. Did you use lube and if so, what?
The back pain may/may not be related. There is some concern about seeing blood in your stool and having lower back pain. If it continues, see your doctor.
I used tons of Climax H20 which is a water based lube and very good for anal. Cleaning the toy happens before each use. I am going to hold off on using the big guy until after I get checked out by the doctor. I see the doctor in a week and a half anyways and probably won't use anything at all up there until next weekend, but it will be a much smaller toy. I should say that I am out of shape, and I have to squat down to use this big toy rather than just lay on my back or sit on it like other toys. Maybe that is what is causing the pain, and it is the lower back. I had urinary problems back in 2006, but they could never find any problem, and I will say that I have had some pelvic pain the last few days.The stool on Thursday and yesterday were a little darker, but it wasn't blood I don't think. Urine coloring is all normal too.
I meant to say urinary pain and discomfort. Oops.
There are no issues with the lube that should be contributing to the blood you saw. The squatting could contribute to your pain.
Your doctor can run a fecal occult blood test easily.
Occult came back negative. I have stopped using the toy nearly as much. I think it was an IBS related problem and just coincidental.
Thanks for the update. Glad it was negative