In 2009 I had a baby n a few months later I discovered spots. I consulted with a sexual health nurse who tested me&gave me a cream to clear it up. She said it was my hormones. They never really went away&now hav became really hard like warts. In the last year Ive put on a massive amount of weight. Yesterday I went to the toilet&I'd been feeling a tightening all day in the inner thigh area. When I urinated in the evening it burned at right side of inner thigh. I touched it&a huge boil or abscess has appeared. My sexlife is absolutely non existent n has been for nearly 3 years. What could this be? My sexual health nurse has left my surgery&I feel very uncomfortable being examined. Plz help me I'm 39 years old&have doubled my weight in 1 year if that helps! Thanks for reading, hope you have a lovely day