Had a stye in top left eyelid for coming up 2 years, thinking it's a chalazion as it's a hard red bump now, can definitely tell the difference between both eyelids. I've tried salt water, warm compresses, tea bags, nothing's working! I'm scared to get surgery as I'm only 13 and the doctor said that things may go wrong (I could get blinded, etc) as they don't want to put me on anaesthetic because of the "risks". Any help? Please??