swollen, painful, irritated vagina after oral sex and fingering

I had the same issue, not only due to my husband being bigger than the average man, but after oral sex and having an orgasm still was not making the outside of my vagina wet enough. It was always that one area outside the vagina around the opening (that part of my vagina is tight and smaller than his part, so I was prone to getting dried quicker due to his extreme friction). Everything else was fine. I couldn't figure out what was wrong until someone told me it must be granular vaginitis. Granular vaginitis is due grains being excreted through the urinary tract and sticks to the vaginal skin. Vitamin A, C, and other additives the body does not need rids of it through the urinary tract. The friction and the grains only irritate the vagina worse and make it swell. The pain was so unbearable that I was reluctant to have sex. This has never happened before. I drink a lot a water, probably a gallon a day. I switched my water and I drink distilled water which is pure and nothing is added to it. There are many types of vaginitis. Try going to a natural healer. They could tell you better.

I have the same thing but on my right lip side and I'm not sure what to do my skin on it is tatting to peel and some of it is bleeding I've had it since this past Monday after I had sex with my boyfriend and I'm not sure what to do I'm scared and only 16 I'll be 17 soon someone help me please


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I have the same thing but on my right lip side and I'm not sure what to do my skin on it is tatting to peel and some of it is bleeding I've had it since this past Monday after I had sex with my boyfriend and I'm not sure what to do I'm scared and only 16 I'll be 17 soon someone help me please


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It might just be good old fashioned chemistry. You might be sensitive to his body, his chemisty, his sweat. Sometimes people are more acidic from how they take care of themselves, to what they eat, to their personal hygiene and just natural DNA. Everyone has bacteria on them and if he has lots of bacteria in his mouth or private areas from any of the above or simply not great hygiene, this can cause an overgrowth of already existing bacteria and when bacteria becomes too much, it will cause a reaction or imbalance. Try to wash after intimacy to help with the extra bacteria (that can leads to a yeast infection). Lastly, a personal story, when I was in college I used to sleep with someone that had a husky and I would always get itchy after intimacy becuse (in hindsight) I think it was from the dog! He was always petting and scratching that dog with his nails. Of course laying in bed, then not washing hands , then having sex later - I think the dog hair and dander was the factor, since when he was touching me after with unwashed hands - and I would react. Back then I didnt really pay attention to those things but as you get older it's gross in hindsight.

It's common to get a mild yeast infection around the time of your period, with or without sex. Basically your chemistry down there changes a little bit, it can smell different, feel different, etc u... usually it just goes back to normal on it's own (like those cheesy vagisil commercials) but burning pee can be from not drinking enough water to just too much stimulation and a combo of the two, OR can be your basic ph level is off OR and an STD. Many STDS go unnoticed and unchecked and men can unknowing pass it along from parter to partner. Having unprotected sex will always be a risk, doesn't matter how clean you think you or your partner are. Best advice, wait to have sex... wait until you really know who someone is, before you possibly compromise your health and future

My man fingers and licks me every night.
Even to a point it starts to hurt but I push myself into him more as it turns me on and I cum on his face all the time . Fingering can make you sore but if you are enjoying the sensation then just relax ,your body will lubracate itself and you will love it.. sometimes you can get sore , I use coconut oil it softens and helps with swelling and it helps you to orgasm .its the best thing sitting on your mans face while he growls ya out .. 69er will make you forget the pain .50 and loving sex ..

I have the same thing no swelling only pain. My first to do I am not sure my sister told me to soak in the tide with cool water and put some Essence salt in the tube and soak.

I had the same thing but the swelling only lasted over night. But as you said it looked like a bubble, swollen & irritated and it's really uncomfortable when you close your legs. I say just clean it well with balancing pH wipes and apply an over the counter cream like Vagisil if it lasts more than three days then you should go see a doctor.

I have this right now and I’m very worried it’s been over 48 hours reply back If youve found anything to make it go away

Use lube! Also go get some over the counter clottimazole is it for a week before sex. Men are sometimes too rough on a vag. Speak up it’s your body.

Me too ugh I legit am hurting badly. It burns when I go to the bathroom, feels super raw, hurt ish feeling, and freaking brown discharge. I have health problems so I get checked out pretty much 3 times a week and blood test stuff. I’m afraid to ask if he’s clean. I think he is but idk shsvgsgwgsggd he gave me head and fingered me but legit for like 3 hours it was hurting so bad I couldn’t breathe I then started shaking unbearable! Then a few hours in I was starting to cry. He would stop when I would be hanging off the bed upsidedown from the pain being too much and just say “shhh your okay it’s okay” while I was tearing up from the pain. I’m 16 and this was my first time doing stuff like that. I of course used nair the night before and I don’t think any got in but sometimes it can burn and you should put it there but I’m stupid enough to do it any way. I’m just really uncomfortable with the pain. I have chronic pain syndrome, chronic regional pain syndrome, chronic stomach pain, and a lot more different and difficult to understand stuff. I’m on at least 17 different medicines (also a stronger antibiotics from the infections I have on my scars :’) and had a big surgery on April 20th which he hurt too even though he knows my whole chest and lower arm pits are covered with scars and stitches that my skin is rejecting so they have to pull them out making huge painful sores. Sorry for that long STORY I just need help. Also I’m guessing I seem dumb for not telling him to stop but I kinda have a problem with saying stuff like that which is completely stupid and I deeply regret it. Thanks for your time! Please help!