Is it possible to obsess over someone instead of find them cute?
I worry cause I do have a history of temporarily obsessing over things.
And I've been thinking about my crush a lot lately.
Is this possible?
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Hi,
well - you've just discovered what having a crush is like! It's not just obsessing, it's more like you become more self-aware, especially when it comes to any situation that involves the girl you like - you can think like 1000 times how are you going to say "hi", what are you going to talk about, did you sound stupid, is there a chance that she likes you as well... I could just keep numbering things - there is no end to this. Life sure would be million times easier if we could just think someone is cute... nope, our brains seems to be sort of preset to react with over-thinking important things and strong emotional event, of course, some people feel this more, some less.
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Thanks that helps.
Sorry it was a thought that I had been thinking about lately cause I do obsess over things temporarily (with the exception of robots. I still like those things a lot).
And I worry that instead of this being that I like someone that I only am obsessing over the thought.
But you put my mind at rest so thanks.
:)
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