I'm involved with a new girl who doesn't want to get into actual intercourse yet but who loves to dry hump with me. The problem is that my penis gets so sore from rubbing against my boxers and my pants while we're doing it. Advice on dealing with a sore tool, guys?
I'm assuming you are circumcised, as I spent several months doing that nightly with no problems when I was first dating a girl and all we had was her parents sofa. She dominated the action and I mainly tried to hold myself in place against her for her pleasure. I left with wet, sticky pants every night. Mine just moved around inside it's natural covering.
All I can say is try to move it to a position where it doesn't get rubbed as hard.
Absolutely. The penis is very sensitive, so rubbing it against the fabric causes a rawness. Try keeping it moisturized by using a quality penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) that includes a high end emollient such as shea butter and a natural hydrator like vitamin E. It also helps to make sure the underwear you are wearing is of a soft, gentle cotton.