Ultimate thread for Uncircumsized penis / sensitive head / Erectile dysfunction in intercourse

I am 22, and I am not circumsized. I am not a bad looking guy, and I have never really had any problems getting "the Girl" the problem was, every sexual encounter that Ive had with women up until a few weeks ago has been horrible. This has stemmed from a few problems. First, I am able to masturbate and ejaculate fine when Im by myself, watching porn. i noticed my problem first when i received oral sex for the first time. The head of my penis would ruin the experience for me. because i had never really exposed the skin for long periods of time, my head is ULTRA sensitive. oral sex HURT me lol. Then came my first intercourse encounter. i was unable to achieve an erection hard enough to penetrate the first time i attempted sex. After talking with my gf at the time, we decided to try again a few months later, we were both virgins. I decided i was going to loose my virginity at all costs, i was already 19 or 20 at the time, so i opted to take a Viagra pill. Once i did this, i was able to hold my erection up long enough to penetrate and have some kind of sex. The condom, by being lubed, was helping with my sensitive head. Although I did not feel much at all, i was happy to loose my virginity. I never had sex again after that. Until recently. I met a girl that is 22, and really likes me so she is willing to be patient and is working with me. Obviously, the first thing i needed to do was to toughen up the skin on my head. I am achieving this by pulling back the skin at night, and leaving it exposed so it can rub up against the cloth and build more layers. this is needed to be done every night. on full erection, my penis is about 6 inches. Limp, its about 3.5, So i had to make a little string out of some napkins and tie it back every night, so the skin just doesn't roll back down and defeat the purpose. On days when i am at home, i can tie it back during the day. The biggest problem though, was that I would loose my erection as soon as I got the condom on, right before intercourse. This is how i worked around this problem. I never knew that i was like a girl, lol. I have to kind of , get in the mood, and to really want to have sex. I would be talking to my new gf, telling her bad things, while i would rub up against her body, providing my erection. This would also get her in the mood, next i would get the condom on, and before i lost my erection, start to rub up against her some more, while Im still talking to her. this would help keep my erection up and get me in the mood as well. ( I wasnt able to just jump right into business as i previously thought I would have, by being a guy) I realized that everybody is different and that if this is what i have to do to have sex, then its what i have to do. The main thing is becoming comfortable with your partner. I was comfortable enough to talk to her like that and she would also tell me dirty things that would get me in the mood and turned on. At the current moment I can receive oral sex but my head is still too sensitive to really enjoy it as much as i know i could. Im still pulling the skin back to toughen it up. i have noticed a measurable difference in my head becoming de-sensitized with this procedure. I have yet to ejaculate with a woman, and I am working on that now. I hope this has helped others like me that are sexually frustrated. basically in a nutshell, 1) desensitize your penis and 2) become comfortable with your sexual partner