well i am 12 year old and i have to go to bed at 7-7:30! Im only allowed on the computer for like 1 hour a day and for 3 times a week! My mum walks me to school and im not allowed to go out with my friends.my mum picks my clothes which are horrible! i have a mobile phone but if i do the slightest thing wrong i get it taken away from me for 3 weeks and i also get grounded for 3 weeks!
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You are 12 years old, and how do you think your life should look like? Paris Hilton's? What would you be doing anyway on the computer? I do realize what is the problem - your friends seem to have a lot more "privileges" and freedom, but trust me, some of their moms are even more strict than yours is, only they are a bit more subtle than yours is. How does your mom respond when you as for at least some compromise?
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hi you could read my post and maybe it will help you. i kind of was in the same situation only im 15 now.
https://www.steadyhealth.com/Having_a_Hard_Time__t253032.html
but i just talked to my parents to try and work it out and it worked so things are better. i know it sucks but let your mom know your growing up and need to be more independent with things like picking out your own clothes and stuff. you should be allowed to go to a friends house, to go out with them i wasnt allowed to till i was 14 where they would let me go to the mall or movies or something with them alone for a bit. but i could go to a friends house if parents were there. but compromise on the bedtime for maybe an hour later. and the phone and computer well im the same with that. i cant be on it for to long and i get my stuff taken away to something i know it sucks. but let them know your responsible and show them so they will trust you with things and if you break it then you cant get mad. but talk to them it worked for me.
https://www.steadyhealth.com/Having_a_Hard_Time__t253032.html
but i just talked to my parents to try and work it out and it worked so things are better. i know it sucks but let your mom know your growing up and need to be more independent with things like picking out your own clothes and stuff. you should be allowed to go to a friends house, to go out with them i wasnt allowed to till i was 14 where they would let me go to the mall or movies or something with them alone for a bit. but i could go to a friends house if parents were there. but compromise on the bedtime for maybe an hour later. and the phone and computer well im the same with that. i cant be on it for to long and i get my stuff taken away to something i know it sucks. but let them know your responsible and show them so they will trust you with things and if you break it then you cant get mad. but talk to them it worked for me.
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