I'm in my 30s, and was recently with a man in his late 30s who had trouble staying hard when we tried to have sex. We'd been on 5 dates and had nice, comfortable conversations. Our first time trying intercourse was passionate until the condom came out, and he explained this happens to him the first time he's with women. We found ways to enjoy ourselves. The second time, a week later, it happened again. This time I think he just got frustrated/embarrassed and there was less of an attempt at other ways of enjoyment. However, I did perform oral sex and he got hard. It's the actual intercourse that seems to trip him up. I was completely understanding both times. Now I'm not hearing from him. Not sure if he's embarrassed or what. Should I have done something differently?
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