My husband is trying to have anal sex ...but I'm so afraid...I enjoy the finger very much ... but I'm not sure about his penis in my ass...I really want to try it!!! specially double using a cockring ...we are married for 20 years, he was my first and only..I want to try something new I know he's ready, and I also know he really want to... but I don't want him to loose respect for me because I'm doing this things...I need some advise.
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Hi, anal sex can be amazing if done properly and sensitively. But don't rush into it. Read up on how to do it befire you do. Just a few tips, relaxation is crucial. If you are not relaxed or will be difficult. It helps to be really aroused before you try anal sex. Lots of foreplay (always a good thing :-) ) and going slow. You need to use lots of lube, preferably one especially designed for anal sex. also you need to slowly work up to inserting his penis. Start with one finger, then two, etc. Also, there are actually 2 sphincters. The first you can relax at will, the second you can't and if he forces at that point it will hurt. That's why you need to be relaxed and he needs to go slow. Position can make a difference. Doggy is not great for the first time. Spooning is lovely and intimate, and cowgirl gives you control. And never go from anus to vagina, you can get very nasty infections. So relax and make sure you are well informed before you start. Also, why would he respect you any less for doing something he has asked you to do? He'll probably be really thankful. And finally, if you want to do it by all means go ahead, but the decision is ultimately yours. If you don't want to that's ok. I hope that helps
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