So, my husband and I want to have anal sex. But we are afraid. We do a lot of butt play, and I love it when he sticks his fingers in both of my holes, but we have watched a lot of porn and we see how they do it, but I am not sure how accurate this would be. We see that they stick fingers and stretch their hole out, but my husband finds that as a turn off. Is there another great way to get into anal sex without the most amount of pain? We would eventually like to work up to where he can just slide it in and go fast and hard.
Thanks for the help.
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Don't be scared, as you'll just close up tight and have a terrible experience. Perhaps it is what you've seen in porn videos?
Don't take your lessons from watching porn as it is not realistic. It is not often anyone can take it hard and fast - you really have to be super relaxed, experienced and to really want it to take it that way. Personally I don't like anal that way. You need to take it one step at a time. Go very slowly and over time you'll get used to it. To relax have a few drinks and try to reach a climax first, then you'll find penetration easier. As you'll hear time and again from everyone on this subject, lots of lubrication is essential.
You may find anal slightly uncomfortable at first as you get used to it, but there should be no pain. If it painful then stop. Once you've been having anal sex a while and got used to the different sensations you'll find you be able to do it for longer and more frequently without the discomfort. But is is something you need to work at and both be patient with.
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