hey there. I'm 15 and I have only started masturbating for 2 days now. I know I am producing semen as I can see small drops of semi-clear sticky liquid.
i am fairly new to all this stuff, so I'm sorry if all of this seems very stupid (sex ed is awful in the U.K. too):
I know that after you ejaculate you are supposed to orgasm, but I don't know what an orgasm feels like or what part it affects (I assume it is a sensation in the penis but I don't know). What does an orgasm feel like?
And while I'm on the topic: how much are you supposed to ejaculate? Is it supposed to be small drops over time? Or should it just be gushing out like regular urine? *sigh* I'm sorry
Another thing: how long am I supposed to masturbate for before reaching an orgasm? Am I being too short if I spend around 15 minutes and afterwards more semen is coming out without my volition?
Also, one extra thing of note: I plan on getting some actual lubricant in the form of Durex products (I hope that sex lube works too) but is E45 cream ok for use in masturbation? I know it's no baby oil or aloe vera, but it isn't scented and moisturises the skin (I tried it today and my penis is silky smooth now, I'm not sure if my balls would react though).
I'm sorry for this utterly dumb post. I need to start somewhere.
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Hi 15,
Sex ed is awful everywhere.
Ejaculation and orgasm usually occur together. During an orgasm you usually get a strong feeling in your groin like a build up of pressure and release.
How much you ejaculate varies. It can be up to about 3/4 of a teaspoon. How long you've been aroused and how long since your last ejaculation will effect the volume. It may shoot out or it may just ooze out, it's all normal. You may notice drops of precum on your penis before ejaculation.
How long it takes varies. Some guys ejaculate in seconds. With practice you can make it last for hours. 15 minutes isn't bad.
Only use water based lubes. Spit works too if you can't get something. Watch out for soaps as they can dry the skin.
Hope it helps.
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