what losing your virginity at fourteen does to you.

GOD is forgiving

Meh, you made the biggest mistake of your life, lucky you didn't get STD's, do it again, that's another game with Russian roullete, but with cum. At least you made it this far without ruining your sex life forever.

I have a boyfrind i am 14 he is 18 he called me today we talked he then said how about i lose my virginity i knw dat i cnt and i am scared he loves me and i love him

Idk if you will see this, hopefully you will, girl all im gonna say is just try to forgive yourself, you've lost it, its gone forver cant loose it for the first time again, right now u just have to wait till marriage to feel at ease when u do it because yall would be married and sex is kind of mandatory

If you're scared, boo don't do it, wouldnt you love to loose your virginity to someone for sure will kno waited for whenever you were ready, lets say they wait till marriage, n yall have sex, im sire you'd feel good n know his worth yo, don't do nothing hasty. Hes 18 you dont kno what diseases he's caught, hes probably not a virgin if hes asking u to do it, please make wise choices.you're wayyy too young for sex

Hey idk if you will see this, but if I were you I would wait. This same thing happened to me and I'm a lot happier now that I've chosen to wait. If a boy really does love you, he will wait too. It's that simple.

While I do the things the girl wrote about, I don't hold the same attitude about it. I once did when I was about her age until my boyfriend who got me into it all left me because I had become too wild, talk about making his own monster! She needs a few more subdued friends to keep her grounded and to be very careful with contraception but she also doesn't need condescending adults patronizing her, I know from experience it creates an us vs them atmosphere which isn't helpful for anyone.

Well i Also lost my virginity at the age of 14 and now i'm 18 but i never regret it. Cuz instead of Sighing about your past you'd rather be happy to face the present. You should try to move on with your life well this is it :)

There 7.3 Billion people on the planet. Do you think your the only one? Im a boy who lost virginity to a prostitute at age 14. How do you think I feel? Just remember.... Everything happens for a reason.

Same here , I'm 14 years old and turning 15 and I'm alyssa um... anyway why is it any of our parents buisness about our sex life right and also I've had sex with 5 people a lot of times though and I don't regret it at all only last night because I told the guy no and he raped me in the ass and I screamed my bfs name out and he started to hit him and I was just crying but my mom found out I went out of the house to go to this party in another town and the next morning she said she had read my diary and I yelled at her and she yelled back and she told me your a w**** alyssa and wtf! And my mom said your not seeing anyone no more and I'm going to be the biggest b***h you have ever seen and I was like wtf and yea she said she would call the police if I snuck out again!!)=

Irregular periods aren't normal. This can lead to something even more serious in the future. I would suggest you talk things out with your partner. You can agree to tell a adult that you truly trust perhaps your mother.I agree won't be easy but like i said situation may deteriorate as time goes.

this guy I barley know had asked me to hang out. well he has a gf & his gf is pregnant, so of course my dumb ass went to hang out. we met up & we went behind a barn. well he stared touching up on me, and then one thing let to another. it wasn't so fast, I was so scared & nervous. well he bent me over & bam. well I got scared so I hurried up and ran. & im only 14.

You are wrong. It has everything to do with you your parents. 14 and pregnant? Who pays for it? STD's? AIDS? What do you mean it has nothing to do with parents? A parents job is to teach a child how to protect themselves and prepare for adulthood. Pregnancy is real, life-changing and at 14, how can you ever take parents out of the equation? You are not entitled to sex. It is not a right...anymore than drinking and driving is a right. Is it none of a parents right to step in and expect their child to not drink and drive? What about drugs? Do drugs have nothing to do with a 14 year old? Snooks, you need to grow up and understand that as long as a child lives under a parent's roof, then educating and policing a child regarding sex, drugs, drinking and driving have everything to do with good, necessary and responsible parenting. AIDS is the #1 killer of young people between 16 and 24 years of age. Your opinion that parents don't matter is reckless, uninformed, prejudice against children's safety and quite frankly, moronic.

Honestly I've been through the EXACT same thing. And I'm 15 going to be 16 in October...and I haven't told my dad I don't have a mom anymore and it was with this 17 year old boy...at the age of 14 and I thought I liked him and I didn't and I did it 5 times with just him....and after wards it was horrible...and exactly me too I felt like I was living a lie...and I hated myself too and I still do that sh*t haunts tf out of me each and every day ....and I promised to myself I won't do that again until I'm married no I'm not a Virgin anymore by people make mistakes it's a part of being human and you live only once and God will forgive you. I'm sure you'll make the right decision and the best thing to do is to move on from it. and live your life. it was going to happend eventually it's human nature and your curiosity. Now you see what happens and you know not to be dumb enough to let it happen again with some goofy....or you can wait till your married which is the best idea. Or OLD enough. Lol that's what I'm doing. So ...yeah I wish you the best of luck. -La

Lol she already lost it....