what losing your virginity at fourteen does to you.

Do you guys think its ok.... Am only 14 been in the relationship 7 months... We talked about sex and he says whenever am ready he will be waiting.... But I don't understand am confused should we

Women think men are so sex crazed and shut us off, yet women find a way to screw at 14 and 15 years old.
Maybe that is why older women are so over sex. They got tired of tramping around as teens.

I'm 14 lost my virginty a week ago I got drunk I realized it was a big mistake the next day.... I
Don't feel comfortable and hate lieing to my parents ..

I was 14 when I lost my virginity to a boy I knew I loved and he loved me we meant the world to eachother and we still do. I hated myself my body everything about me I still do a bit but when I am with him I feel whole two years on and we are still happy I don't regret my decision at all. And the hatred gets better over time. I found the right person at such a young age but it all felt natural

I've litterly been talking to this guy for 3 months and the first time we hung out we had sex even tho I kept telling my self I wouldn't that day but I guess sh*t happeneds we litterly were just hanging out out side in the dug out at my high school (place where ppl smoke and the cameras can't see or anybody and things happened and it litterly happened there my first time behind a dug out I was high and I'm 14 and he's 17 he's always ignores me cause he's one of those guys who has to wait 4 hours just to reply but I guess he forgot I hate my self but then again I want to do it again with him I'm more self causious about my self im lying to my step dad and my step sister and my best friend I have this whole other secret life where I smoke weed and have sex it was bad enough that I was hiding cutting and all that and not telling a soul but now I'm taking things way to far yet I can't bring my self to stop it

You must be 15 now right? How do you feel?

If you need someone to talk I'm always here.

We're you pregnant

I lost my virginity when I was 13ish. It was great and the best experience. I never regretted it and I don't see why girls regret that experience. I had a much older boyfriend who was caring and made sure I had the most awesome experience. I think regret happens because the choice of the partner is bad. Having sex when one reaches puberty is a natural instinct. It is normal and a natural function and the way we are created. Just don't be hard on yourselves if you had sex early. More importantly, I think girls need to be "prepared" instead of obsessing as to when they are "ready". Sex will happen and if you are prepared and understand complications and consequences and have taken precautions against those issues then you have done well. No one is ever ready. Never - irrespective of whether you are 14 or 41. First times are always associated with nervous anxiety and worry. That is perfectly normal. But that doesn't mean you should not have sex. Sex is enjoyable and fun. Just make sure you understand the issues and make sure you prepare yourself and take precautions. 

Hi...i dont know where to start...im 14 year girl...im a virgin...there is this guy i really love...we always fight because he want to have sex with me and im scared of breaking my virgin...he is stressing me...i dont know what to do...should i sleep with him or not...?please help me!!!

Tell me why are you scared? I lost my virginity when I was 13ish to someone much older and I don't regret it. Sex is awesome, fun and thoroughly enjoyable. Society, parents, religion will try and make you feel guilty and try to hold you back but remember sex is perfectly normal and instinctive.
Why don't you try oral sex and mutual masturbation and see if you like it. That may give you more confidence and may change your view on sex. Don't be scared of losing your virginity. It is NOT painful if you are properly aroused and prepared. Also being scared won't help.
You could try masturbation yourself and you will most likely enjoy it.
You are scared because your mind has been primed by all the negativity that abounds in society. That is so sad because src is meant to be enjoyed. Just make sure you take precautions against STDs and pregnancy. How old is your guy? Mine was many many years older and I had the most awesome mind blowing experience.
Please don't be scared. It is normal to be anxious.

I lost my virginity at 14 with a boy I didn't want too, we dated for a year and two months so I thought was ready... but when I said no he continued to go so I let it slide. I was in the car with my mom talking about my 16th birthday and she subject of my ex boyfriend came up. I bursted into tears. I told her how it happens. She looked at me and told me I would always be her little girl and that she wouldn't treat me any different considering she lost hers at 14 too but she is thankful I didn't get pregnant like her, she was not disappointed in me and held me why I cried for hours. I felt unwanted, unworthy. But she continued to consulting me. My mom was always the type to over react but she went easy one me because my first time was a mistake with a body who only wanted sex. After a day or two of me being emotionally balanced she wanted to met the new boy I was dating ( 2 months). I'm still waiting for them to met, she doesn't trust boys since she learned about the first one. My boyfriend is more than enough respect with me, he doesn't touch me in inappropriate places, he doesn't force me into anything. He won't even hug me if I'm not comfortable with him doing so. All I can tell you is open up to your mother, tell her you want it to be kept between you two and she will listen. You're mother is there to be your friend, mom and helper. Go to her..

Not sure what you are trying to portray here.
Are you saying you were that fragile little flower that someone took advantage of?

The same things happening to me I am light this month am worried to I've taken test the come negative what do I do?

look to Jesus.
Matthew 11:28-30 says,
28“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. 29“Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. 30“For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
John 3:16-21
16“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. 17“For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. 18“He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19“This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. 20“For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. 21“But he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God.”