My mom is very sick with emphazima and has just barely made through cancer. My dad died from a heart attack behind the wheel of his car. Now my older brother has a job and barely is home to help. MY little brother is autistic and has A.D.H.D and is a cyclone all by himself. juggling between school, taking care of my brother and mom and others I have barely any freetime. plus the kids think I'm lazy at school but they have no idea. what should i do?