So my boyfriend and I got into an argument today and he called me confusing. I'm just trying to understand better what is so confusing so I can try to resolve our relationship. (We have only been together for two months) The argument was about me saying I wanted to live with him and then saying I didn't want to until after a year. I understand that part is confusing me by saying one thing and then changing it. Everyone is indecisive or something I don't know what id call it. But he is extremely upset with me for doing that. And the last relationship he has she cheated on him and was super manipulative. Am I setting off a trigger of his from that relationship? I seriously don't know what's going on. He says he doesn't know what's real and what's fake with me. What do I do?
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Hey.
It's hard to say exactly why your boyfriend is saying that you're confusing without knowing more about the context and your relationship. One thing you can do is to talk to him about it and try to understand what he means by it.
Ask him to explain what he means by confusing and try to understand where he is coming from. You may also want to try and be more up front and direct in your communication with him, so that he can understand you better.
It sounds like he is feeling uncertain and confused about your relationship. Communication is key in any relationship and it’s important to be open and honest with one another. If he is feeling uncertain and confused, it’s important to get to the root of the issue so you both can be on the same page.
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