I had an abortion exactly 3 weeks ago yesterday, I followed the doctors orders perfectly. I was supposed to have my checkup later on today, but the doctor will be out so they asked me to reschedule for next week. I asked if the no sex, swimming or tampons for 3 weeks, really was for 3 weeks, or until the doctor okay'd it, they said 3 weeks meant 3 weeks, and reminded me to not do anything if I'm still bleeding or bleed from these activities. I had my abortion done very early on, so I was bleeding for about 5 days, a little more heavier than a normal period, I experienced no pain and haven't been bleeding for a little over a week, I'm scared that my generally pain-free recovery process might not mean sex will be the same.