I'm not sure what to do if a person wants to have sex? And can you get pregnant if you are a virgin?
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Hi Johnisha
1. I assume that you are a girl, and that when you say "I'm not sure what to do if a person wants to have sex" you mean that you don't want to have sex, and want to know what to do if a guy asks you for sex. Is that so?
The 'simple' answer is to say "no", I don't want to have sex. You can follow that up by stating your reasons if you wish. For instance, you could say (if true) "I want to stay a virgin until I am married". Any decent guy would accept that.
I take it that you have a circumstance in mind. Would you outline it for me please? I'll try and help more.
It is important to only have such close friends, where that situation would arise, who are like-minded and have similar values.
2. Yes, you can get pregnant even if you are a virgin. You are a virgin until a penis penetrates your vagina (irrespective of the state of your hymen). To get pregnant, a sperm has to enter your vagina at a fertile time. It is possible for sperm to enter your vagina in ways other than by sexual intercourse. Semen deposited near your vaginal entrance could find its way in, particularly if you are aroused. Manual transfer is also possible (say) if semen gets onto a finger (yours or his) and that finger touches or enters your vagina. I take it again that you have a circumstance in mind. Would you outline it for me please? I'll try and help more.
Can you give some background information, please? How old are you? Which country are you from? What are the religious and cultural implications?
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Sometimes when you're very close with someone, like a twin would be, your periods will synchronize. So if hers stops it may cause yours to be late even though you are not pregnant. Me and both of my sisters always had our periods start within a day of each others, and when I got pregnant with my first baby they both skipped that first month. But it could be a medical concern as well.
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oh god no. i am a virgin and i have all the sign of pregnancy and im really scared. please respond.
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- You can only get pregnant if sperm enter your vagina at a fertile time.
- Sperm can enter your vagina through means other than by sexual intercourse.
- This can happen, for instance by manual transfer. So if fingers that have sperm on them are then put into your vagina, the sperm that is on them will go in as well.
- It can also happen if semen lands on your vulva near the entrance to your vagina. If there is sufficient fluid in your vagina, the sperm could possibly swim in.
- However, sperm can only swim (they cannot walk or crawl), and the journey to your fallopian tubes is quite hazardous.
- You say you have all the signs of pregnancy. What are they?
- What was the date of the start of your last period?
- How long is your menstrual cycle (typically 28 days)?
- What sexual activity have you had (of any sort) since your last period?
- How old are you?
- Where are you from?
If you respond, I will try and help further
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I would say one hundred percent undoubtedly yes, dont ever finger, dip fingers in vinegar before insertion if no gloves available, that kills sperm
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