So I'm into the whole sex scene, and in my school, it's a big topic
And there is this boy who likes me and I like him back and I wanted to lose my virginity to him, but I'm worried alot about getting any sexually transmitted diseases or getting pregnant. I've been putting alot of thought into this, and so far I told myself no, but something about it, it makes me want to lose my virginity so bad idk why. Me and him have been into this situation for a while and do you have any suggestions whether I should do it or not??
And there is this boy who likes me and I like him back and I wanted to lose my virginity to him, but I'm worried alot about getting any sexually transmitted diseases or getting pregnant. I've been putting alot of thought into this, and so far I told myself no, but something about it, it makes me want to lose my virginity so bad idk why. Me and him have been into this situation for a while and do you have any suggestions whether I should do it or not??
You want to lose your virginity because everyone else does. You said it yourself: "and in my school, it's a big topic" it's called peer pressure.
the fact that you are scared of infection or pregnancy means you aren't ready. being ready for sex means you are physically, emotionally AND mentally prepared for the commitment and any consequences it entails.
there are many ways to protect yourself and have safe sex, like condoms and barriers, the pill, the NuvaRing, the implant, the shot, the coil if you wish to have sex. But to be honest if you are worried then it doesn't seem like you really want to do it. You just think you do because everyone else around you is, this is common in adolescence. wait until you are truly mentally prepared, ready and UNAFRAID.
the fact that you are scared of infection or pregnancy means you aren't ready. being ready for sex means you are physically, emotionally AND mentally prepared for the commitment and any consequences it entails.
there are many ways to protect yourself and have safe sex, like condoms and barriers, the pill, the NuvaRing, the implant, the shot, the coil if you wish to have sex. But to be honest if you are worried then it doesn't seem like you really want to do it. You just think you do because everyone else around you is, this is common in adolescence. wait until you are truly mentally prepared, ready and UNAFRAID.