hymen stretch exercises

I am 17 years old and still a virgin. I have to be... if I loose my virginity, probably my husband would return me to my father. However, this is not important now. I really like this boy, whom I will not marry, but would like to be with him. are there any hymen stretch exercises, so if I have an intercourse, my hymen wouldn’t broke?

No, there are no such exercises. Some women have more, some less stretching hymen. Some loose their hymen while doing gymnastics, others when having sex for the first time. Some bleed excessively, with others there is just a little drip noticeable.

not everyone bleeds the first time they have sex. i read that in countries where virginity is really important, some women cut themselves or keep a little blood on hand to pour on the sheets afterwards just in case. if you are really worried, you can always rely on this.

second, your husband will not be able to tell by looking if your hymen is broken. think about it: he's probably never seen a vagina before, so how would he know what it is supposed to look like?

the hymen has very little nerve endings in it, you can barely even feel it tear.

The pain from losing your virginity is from your vagina stretching to accomodate the penis. Not the hymen.

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helpisontheway wrote:

the hymen has very little nerve endings in it, you can barely even feel it tear. The pain from losing your virginity is from your vagina stretching to accomodate the penis. Not the hymen.

I'd have to strongly disagree. It's different for everyone. When I had sex for the first time it was terribly painful. I could feel it stretch painfully before there was this strange, hard pop, and it got better after that. But...I bled for about a day and a half (lightly) and there was a dull ache for about 2-3 days. I had to hold back tears. I know it wasnt my vagina stretching to accomadate a penis because I know what that feels like, and it definitely wasnt that. Each hymen is completely different. Anyway, I love the boy i lost my virginity to (that was when i was 17 I'm now 23 and engaged to the same boy..well.. man. ) Dont worry though, after the first time, it gets less and less painful. (thank god)

Also girls, I think the whole idea of cutting your own hymen is really...fishy.. it doesnt sound right. Please do not trust everyone you hear on here, especially if they are a guest. Many women might mistake the opening of their vaginas (like the actual tissue) for the hymen. I would STRONGLY suggest not doing this without an actual doctor's consultation. Please be careful and dont change yourself for a man.

i have been with a few virgins in the past none of them have blead. you just have to take alot of time mounths in my experience of letting them become relaxed with u. then inserting fingers 1 then 2 and eventually 3. once they can relax with 3 it shouldnt bleed with sex for the first time. lubricant really makes a huge differnce it will reduce the friction and is great fun for playing with each other. and when it comes to sex it allows you to go alot faster before experiencing pain. i use liquid silk it doest dry and go tacky. also in my experience it gets tight again my girlfriend after a mounth of not seeing her she becomes like a virgin again. lubricant really is the key and relaxation. alot of plain is caused by the vagina tensing up from nerves making it hard to insert things in. you need to become relaxed with you partner this will help alot. i wouldnt advice putting sizors near vagina or local anithetic drugs u will cause more harm than good. if u want to relax and reduce pain have few glasses of wine or simular not to be drunk but enouth to make u little tippsy. make him take his time with u guys will usually push to go further just keep him in his place. if he wont wait then his the wrong person for u.

I really really would not recommend you try to cut your own hymen. If he were a REAL doctor he would have told you to see a doctor, not to cut your own hymen with scissors!! I'm sorry but that's just stupid.. plz don't try it!!