Hi guys, I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now and in that time she's given me hand jobs and blow jobs with no problems at all. However, on the two occasions when we've wanted to have sex I haven't been able to get a full erection. When we've just been kissing beforehand I've been erect but when we notion to eachother that we want to do it I lose my erection. Please help and let me know if anyone else has had sinilar issues
Hi Osaka,
It's very common for a guy to not be able to get hard the first couple of times.
It's likely anxiety on your part. Anxiety will kill an erection.
Don't focus on it or it can make it worse. Just focus on HER. Work on her for as long as it takes and let your body just go for the ride. You should eventually "forget" what you're anxious about and get hard.
Good luck.