Holy c**p !! It is amazing how many people seem to have this problem. To be honest, I never even thought that this was a problem. I believed that all the porn stars had theirs circumcised and so thatz why my penis looked different.
I come from a country where it is not very normal for dads to talk to kids about this - and I have never ever cleaned the penis head - simply because it was too damn painful to pull the foreskin back and not to mention my sensitive penis head.
Recently, after 30 years of my life, I decided that I need to get rid to be normal and visited a urologist and he told me that I have extra long fore skin and/or phimosis. I had already made up my mind that I was getting my penis circumcised and a couple of weeks later had it done as well.
Now, I am have severe pain - due to the trauma of the procedure itself and not to mention the sensitive penis head. I really hope that I can get back to a normal sex life - but the scars on my penis - oh they are i believe here to stay.
I regret not doing enuf research before my circumcision - but fingers crossed - I hope things work out good for me. Will post in the 4-6 weeks or so - the time required for healing.
Wish me luck.
I come from a country where it is not very normal for dads to talk to kids about this - and I have never ever cleaned the penis head - simply because it was too damn painful to pull the foreskin back and not to mention my sensitive penis head.
Recently, after 30 years of my life, I decided that I need to get rid to be normal and visited a urologist and he told me that I have extra long fore skin and/or phimosis. I had already made up my mind that I was getting my penis circumcised and a couple of weeks later had it done as well.
Now, I am have severe pain - due to the trauma of the procedure itself and not to mention the sensitive penis head. I really hope that I can get back to a normal sex life - but the scars on my penis - oh they are i believe here to stay.
I regret not doing enuf research before my circumcision - but fingers crossed - I hope things work out good for me. Will post in the 4-6 weeks or so - the time required for healing.
Wish me luck.
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lycan, big thanks for sharing your experience. i'm 23 and i have the same problem. looking at your photos, my problem looks identical. ever since i noticed my penis was different to those of pornstars, I thought it was just naturally difference, i didnt think nothing of it. until I had sex one night and notice my foreskin retracted probably 3/4 of the way - it was dead painful and almost spoiled the night for me.
anyway, so i thought, maybe over time, it will just automatically retract, but looks like I have to do something about it, I spent nights trying to retract it but it just gets too painful, I can now get about a third of the way. The penis head also gets very sensitive and I can't touch it. Once I had the foreskin stuck about half way down at the same time I erected, the pain was that bad that I felt like I was about to faint. The tip of my penis head is also attached to the foreskin
My advice is to take time to get it right, whether its a few months, or even a year. My personal problem is that to ensure no pain, I have to wear a condom during sex. But I'm looking to try for a kid very soon.
anyway, so i thought, maybe over time, it will just automatically retract, but looks like I have to do something about it, I spent nights trying to retract it but it just gets too painful, I can now get about a third of the way. The penis head also gets very sensitive and I can't touch it. Once I had the foreskin stuck about half way down at the same time I erected, the pain was that bad that I felt like I was about to faint. The tip of my penis head is also attached to the foreskin
My advice is to take time to get it right, whether its a few months, or even a year. My personal problem is that to ensure no pain, I have to wear a condom during sex. But I'm looking to try for a kid very soon.
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Hi all,
I have the same problem as most of you all did. Thus, i begin doing daily stretching of the foreskin and after a week, the foreskin seems to be very loose and i tried retracting it fully for the first time.
What i am wondering is that when i retract it, i normally roll the skin backwards instead of pulling it. This makes it less pain but will it cause paraphimosis? I feel a very mild tightening of the penis when the foreskin is retracted..
I usually have problems pulling the retracted skin back into position. It will normally take me awhile before the foreskin is pulled back to normal. So do i have paraphimosis?
I have the same problem as most of you all did. Thus, i begin doing daily stretching of the foreskin and after a week, the foreskin seems to be very loose and i tried retracting it fully for the first time.
What i am wondering is that when i retract it, i normally roll the skin backwards instead of pulling it. This makes it less pain but will it cause paraphimosis? I feel a very mild tightening of the penis when the foreskin is retracted..
I usually have problems pulling the retracted skin back into position. It will normally take me awhile before the foreskin is pulled back to normal. So do i have paraphimosis?
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Just keep stretching after you've had a bath. Take it to the point where it feels like you are just about to cause pain (but are NOT causing pain, you might harm yourself!) and hold it there. Eventually it should stretch via mitosis.
Last guy: just work at loosening your foreskin as much as possible.
Last guy: just work at loosening your foreskin as much as possible.
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Hi there i also have the same problem as all of you (glad im not alone) lol im 16 and have begun stretching my foreskin i got it over my head today for the 1st time but it was like chocking my penis witch hurt and also looked terrible and it got stuck behind but i squeezed the head and pulled it back over iv been streching for a few days now but the next day i always seem to be at square 1 again :-( and its annoying because i want to get rid of this by myself and as soon as possible im also a virgin but just got a new gf and looking to have sex soon but she is not a virgin and im worried that she may think im strange for not being able to pull my foreskin back so i was wondering for all of you that have stretched your foreskin how long did it take and did it look totally normal when you finished?
thanks :-)
thanks :-)
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im 17 and have the same problem and am scared to go to the doctor, i live in the uk. when i pull back my fore skin i can a bit, more than i used to anyway but the problem is that when i roll it out i looks like it is attached to the penis. Also when i start pulling it back there is like a vein at the end bit of the fore skin and i dont want to pull any more in case i pop it out or somethin? any help
m8 that vein is fine everyone has it just pull further , but i know what you mean it looks like it could pop. go to the doctors though seriously cus i had a similar problem had a minor op and now it retracts fully although slightly tight but sex and bjs are much better now and it also means you can start desensitizing your head which should of happened years ago
m8 that vein is fine everyone has it just pull further , but i know what you mean it looks like it could pop. go to the doctors though seriously cus i had a similar problem had a minor op and now it retracts fully although slightly tight but sex and bjs are much better now and it also means you can start desensitizing your head which should of happened years ago
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hey everyone, im 16 and i just found out i had the same problem about a month or two ago. I went to the doctor and he said to just keep doing stretching exercises on the foreskin. So after about a few weeks of stretching, i pulled it fully over my head (which took a lot of courage), and i found smegma dried up all around the glands. So, after painfully removing it all, my head looked quite normal, and for the past month has been clean.
Im able to fully retract it when flaccid now, and it doesnt feel tight. But i still have a small problem, when i become erect, its still quite hard to fully retract it, and when i do, it feels very tight. But im sure after a month or two more, it will be fine.
For everyone who is worried, take it from me, just have patience, and every day pull it back, and it will be cured. For the sensitivity part, mines still kinda sensitve. Im able to touch it now, but letting the shower water hit it hurts a bit still. jsut over time, after letting it air out, and cleaning it, the sensitivity will go down. Im still a virgin, so im a bit worried about sex life, but...im sure it will be okay.
goodluck to you all!
Im able to fully retract it when flaccid now, and it doesnt feel tight. But i still have a small problem, when i become erect, its still quite hard to fully retract it, and when i do, it feels very tight. But im sure after a month or two more, it will be fine.
For everyone who is worried, take it from me, just have patience, and every day pull it back, and it will be cured. For the sensitivity part, mines still kinda sensitve. Im able to touch it now, but letting the shower water hit it hurts a bit still. jsut over time, after letting it air out, and cleaning it, the sensitivity will go down. Im still a virgin, so im a bit worried about sex life, but...im sure it will be okay.
goodluck to you all!
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Hi, I have same problem, I tried to stretch my skin for a long time, but it did't seemed to work, and about a week ago, it just slipped, and I found a lot of smegma. Head is pretty sensitive. I can now pretty easily pull the skin over the head, it is little harder to pull it back, but it takes me max. 10 seconds. The problem is, when the penis is erected, I can't pull it even to half of head. I know I've been stretching it only for a week, but can you tell me what time did you need to fully fix the problem? Thanks
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Hi, I've only just got on line and felt i had to contribute to this thread. I'm a 40 year old male and have had the same problem (?) all my life. The thing is i never had a problem with my tight foreskin. I can't retract it over the head but as for cleaning it, soap and water washed over the end suffices. It has never caused me problems during sex (i'm gay) and the only thing that did bother me was the asthetics, is it such a problem if your penis looks like its got a polo neck on? My last bf thought my penis was quite cute!! So before you all run around thinking your a freak, or god forbid you lob a bit off the end getting circumcised, ask yourself is it really a problem (some ppl do need attention) or is it just cause your penis don't look like the porn stars on tv?
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Hi guys, great to see everyone supporting each other and sharing their experience. Reading through these posts i found a lot of things that were identical to my own experience.
like many of you I had assumed that guys in porn were all circumcised and i wasn't and that was it, but I realised after a few less-than-successful sexual encounters that I had a problem with my penis.
I had never pulled back my foreskin before 6 months ago. At the time I could expose a very small amount of my flaccid penis, but that was it. A short time later I could expose the head, but it was super-sensitive. Now, 6 months later of stretching twice a day (mostly), my foreskin easily retracts over my flaccid penis, and feels only slighty constricting to urinate while like this. The foreskin will stretch over the head, and down the shaft of my fully erect penis, with a small amount of effort. This is not painful at all, though tight, and the head is still sensitive, but not painfully so (like your lips).
Now I'm working on stretching the tight band that remains, so the skin can move up and down over the head with natural motion, rather than force.
It's a long road, but it's not hard, and worth the effort. Keep up the talk guys, it's good to hear how people progress.
Cheers!
like many of you I had assumed that guys in porn were all circumcised and i wasn't and that was it, but I realised after a few less-than-successful sexual encounters that I had a problem with my penis.
I had never pulled back my foreskin before 6 months ago. At the time I could expose a very small amount of my flaccid penis, but that was it. A short time later I could expose the head, but it was super-sensitive. Now, 6 months later of stretching twice a day (mostly), my foreskin easily retracts over my flaccid penis, and feels only slighty constricting to urinate while like this. The foreskin will stretch over the head, and down the shaft of my fully erect penis, with a small amount of effort. This is not painful at all, though tight, and the head is still sensitive, but not painfully so (like your lips).
Now I'm working on stretching the tight band that remains, so the skin can move up and down over the head with natural motion, rather than force.
It's a long road, but it's not hard, and worth the effort. Keep up the talk guys, it's good to hear how people progress.
Cheers!
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After taking the time and reading the original post to the most recent, I realized that I really have no idea what I have. If you look at the picture of the original posters penis, mine looks just like it. When I pull back, you could see the like...I guess inside of my penis. If I were to poke it, it would hurt like hell. Now, is that what everyone else has that has posted? I'm beginning to think that you are all uncircumsized and that if just hurts pulling your foreskin back and you can't see the inside of your penis.
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After taking the time to read everyone's responses from the beginning to end, I find that you all have a different problem than me. Maybe I'm wrong, someone please correct me.
See if you look at the original posters post of his penis, it shows that you can pull the little foreskin that he has and if you did, you could see the inside of his penis. Not the skin, but the actual inside. That's exactly what I have.
What I believe you all are talking about is just having too much foreskin, and it hurts being pulled back. Then again, I am confused.
If you do have the same problem as I do I'd like to know.
See if you look at the original posters post of his penis, it shows that you can pull the little foreskin that he has and if you did, you could see the inside of his penis. Not the skin, but the actual inside. That's exactly what I have.
What I believe you all are talking about is just having too much foreskin, and it hurts being pulled back. Then again, I am confused.
If you do have the same problem as I do I'd like to know.
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Hey
my foreskin doesn't retract over my penis and im scared. how long would it take before my foreskin will fully go over my penis. oh and smegma has started to bi=uild up im 16 years old by the way
my foreskin doesn't retract over my penis and im scared. how long would it take before my foreskin will fully go over my penis. oh and smegma has started to bi=uild up im 16 years old by the way
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Is the tip too small so the head can't get through?
Is the foreskin stuck to the head?
What does it do exactly?
Will it go back part way?
Is the foreskin stuck to the head?
What does it do exactly?
Will it go back part way?
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Hey Dude:
You are getting scared unnecessarily. This happens to many men who are uncircumcised. It happened to me. Even I was bit apprenhensive about my sex life. When I spoke to my friends a day, all of them say the foreskin does not retract fully until they force it to do so.
As your urologist said, you need to retract it daily as you bathe. Do not try to retract when it is erect. If you sence erection after retraction, pull it back immediately. If you wait for full erection, it will hurt and bit difficult to pull back the foreskin at this stage.
I usually keep retracting when it is limp (non-erect) daily before bath. Mind it, you should not stop this practise for a long time. It may get back to its original state if you stop it (say for more than a month or so).
Initially, it is better to apply some coconut oil before retracting the foreskin. It will make the work smooth.
Secondly, the glans has to be sensitive buddy, thats when you enjoy sex. Or else, men won't enjoy sex that much.
This is not phymosis or sticture. Don't worry. Phymosis is a stage where even passing urine will be difficult.
You are getting scared unnecessarily. This happens to many men who are uncircumcised. It happened to me. Even I was bit apprenhensive about my sex life. When I spoke to my friends a day, all of them say the foreskin does not retract fully until they force it to do so.
As your urologist said, you need to retract it daily as you bathe. Do not try to retract when it is erect. If you sence erection after retraction, pull it back immediately. If you wait for full erection, it will hurt and bit difficult to pull back the foreskin at this stage.
I usually keep retracting when it is limp (non-erect) daily before bath. Mind it, you should not stop this practise for a long time. It may get back to its original state if you stop it (say for more than a month or so).
Initially, it is better to apply some coconut oil before retracting the foreskin. It will make the work smooth.
Secondly, the glans has to be sensitive buddy, thats when you enjoy sex. Or else, men won't enjoy sex that much.
This is not phymosis or sticture. Don't worry. Phymosis is a stage where even passing urine will be difficult.
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