Hi! I'm a 22 year old man, so you can easily imagine i know nothing about women health issues. (I promise to lear more)That's quite right, i'm afraid. For that I will try to describe the problem the best way i can, because i know no medical terms for this, even though i suspect it is a common "problem".
By girlfriend has beautiful normal breasts, perfect in design and shape, etc, the type any girl whould be "proud" of ... But she isn't, at all. That's because she has an issue with her nipples, that i only found out about recently, because of her reluntness on letting me have any fisical direct contact with them, in our private moments....
The "problem" is that her nipples seem to be hidden inside her breast. That's as far as i can describe the situation, because that zone is always "off limits", but the fact is that it's building in her severe self-esteem problems. Altough as perfect as she is for me, she will never be as beautifull as she is for herself.
I've heard this ain't a rare problem, some say it will correct itself in the moment of her first pregnancy, but my girlfriend actually suspects that she's steril...
What i am asking here is for some direction. What's the name of the problem, what should i read in order to know more about the problem, in order to stop feeling this useless when the subject is brought on.
Thanks
PS. Sorry for my grammar, english ain't my mother language...:-)
By girlfriend has beautiful normal breasts, perfect in design and shape, etc, the type any girl whould be "proud" of ... But she isn't, at all. That's because she has an issue with her nipples, that i only found out about recently, because of her reluntness on letting me have any fisical direct contact with them, in our private moments....
The "problem" is that her nipples seem to be hidden inside her breast. That's as far as i can describe the situation, because that zone is always "off limits", but the fact is that it's building in her severe self-esteem problems. Altough as perfect as she is for me, she will never be as beautifull as she is for herself.
I've heard this ain't a rare problem, some say it will correct itself in the moment of her first pregnancy, but my girlfriend actually suspects that she's steril...
What i am asking here is for some direction. What's the name of the problem, what should i read in order to know more about the problem, in order to stop feeling this useless when the subject is brought on.
Thanks
PS. Sorry for my grammar, english ain't my mother language...:-)
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Hum, i read in one off these posts the term "inverted nipples". Maybe that's the thing... But still on need of guidance, doc!! :-)
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Yes, I suppose this can be hard on a girl but unfortunately the problem will not go away on its own, not even during or after breastfeeding. I am not 100% sure but inverted nipples would not even stick-out when breast feeding.
The only way to correct it is to have a plastic surgery, which is very expensive and not 100% guarantee for long-term benefits. The nipples could go back to the previous position after the surgery and the price of the surgery may range from 2-5 thousand dollars.
I know it must be hard for you not being able to see them and touch them, kiss them, etc but if you are persistent I believe that your five minutes will come. You should not push your girlfriend into showing them to you, I would suggest that you openly talk to her about it, play is if it’s no big deal, even say (during a conversation) that you’ve seen inverted nipples online and that they don’t look so bad but don’t ask to see them.
This way, by having your support and understanding, she may wish to show them to you on her own eventually.
When you talk about each other sexual desires, you may mention that yours biggest is to see her nipples but that you wouldn’t push her and that it’s ok if she’s not ready or if she doesn’t want to. People get used to each other, and women always want to please the man they love and fulfill their fantasies (usually, or it should be like that-I know I do). She may eventually lose her complex about the nipples when being with you and this may not be a problem anymore.
Of course you have to wait, and like a said, don’t be annoying about seeing them, be full of tact, be gentle, but be smart and let her know once that you would love to see them, don’t mention it over and over again because she will remember it if you told her just once but you have to say it is your fantasy.
Anyway, this is how I function and hopefully your girl too. I wish you good luck!
The only way to correct it is to have a plastic surgery, which is very expensive and not 100% guarantee for long-term benefits. The nipples could go back to the previous position after the surgery and the price of the surgery may range from 2-5 thousand dollars.
I know it must be hard for you not being able to see them and touch them, kiss them, etc but if you are persistent I believe that your five minutes will come. You should not push your girlfriend into showing them to you, I would suggest that you openly talk to her about it, play is if it’s no big deal, even say (during a conversation) that you’ve seen inverted nipples online and that they don’t look so bad but don’t ask to see them.
This way, by having your support and understanding, she may wish to show them to you on her own eventually.
When you talk about each other sexual desires, you may mention that yours biggest is to see her nipples but that you wouldn’t push her and that it’s ok if she’s not ready or if she doesn’t want to. People get used to each other, and women always want to please the man they love and fulfill their fantasies (usually, or it should be like that-I know I do). She may eventually lose her complex about the nipples when being with you and this may not be a problem anymore.
Of course you have to wait, and like a said, don’t be annoying about seeing them, be full of tact, be gentle, but be smart and let her know once that you would love to see them, don’t mention it over and over again because she will remember it if you told her just once but you have to say it is your fantasy.
Anyway, this is how I function and hopefully your girl too. I wish you good luck!
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Thanks for replying. Yes, knowing this is a big issue for her i don't push it, but some rare times, especialy in the heat of the moment, i did had trouble controlling myself but, eheh, that's my problem, not hers...
We actually had a conversation about it yesterday, were she didn't seemed very positive about the idea that her nipples will eventually get back to normal, but nonetheless i'm very sad right now knowing they really won't, and i don't know how to say that to her...
Thanks for replying again, and if anyone else has any personal or professional insight that might help, please do post!!
We actually had a conversation about it yesterday, were she didn't seemed very positive about the idea that her nipples will eventually get back to normal, but nonetheless i'm very sad right now knowing they really won't, and i don't know how to say that to her...
Thanks for replying again, and if anyone else has any personal or professional insight that might help, please do post!!
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