I am a virgin and I've had sex in my butt before. Guys have always tried to put it in my vagina but I don't let them. I'm scared to finger mysel because when I was younger and got fingered the guy scratched me. I wanna know a gentle way to loosen up my vagina on my own so it doesn't hurt when I wanna have sex
take a warm bath, to warm things up then start out slowly ( alot of this is in your head, when you stress our or physc yourself out you tense your muscles and make yourself even tighter) message and then slowly enter a finger and start out small then go deeper as you get comfortable(cut your nails to help not have a recap of the past) and then go further as you feel better use lube itll help also