I'm 27 year old female and recently I was a victim of terrible violence.
During my night walk home after overtime work, suddenly someone has grabbed me for my shoulder with one hand and my purse with second hand.
I turned around and try to resist him with kicking and screaming out loud.
He slapped my face with hand and kicked me with his leg in my genitals region very hard.
I felt strong pain and fell to the ground.
All that happened a week ago and all this time I'm feeling pain almost everyday and strange bleeding. I have also noticed a redness and swelling within the vagina.
Should I contact my doctor over it or should I wait a little longer?
Yes I understand your problem and I can only say I'm sorry when I hear woman is victim of this kind of abuse.
If I could decide, I will put this man who did this to you in prison for life. You should contact your doctor immediately!
You don’t have to worry a lot because of one fact.
The external genitalia have a rich blood supply. As a result, relatively minor injuries to the area may bleed excessively. This is particularly true when injuries involve the hymen, vagina, or labia.
Vulvar injuries include lacerations and hematomas. Lacerations that are superficial, clean, and less than 6 hours old can be primarily closed with absorbable suture. Because the deeper layer of subcutaneous vulvar fascia is not attached anteriorly to the pubic rami, hematoma can spread freely into the anterior abdominal wall. Most vulvar hematomas are treated conservatively.
Believe me, when you have bleeding it is a good sign!
If the injury is to the inside of the vagina, the girl or woman may not have any bleeding or pain. Sometimes these internal injuries affect the bladder, rectum, and other organs in the abdomen. In these cases big collections of blood can be found inside, in some abdominal cavity which is much more serious.
I been kicked in the area in martial arts and I was incompasitated in the fetal position on the floor in indescribable pain for 30 mins. It was the worst pain I have ever experienced in my life! And I still had pain and swelling for four or five days later. But now even weeks later I still have stabbing pains in my groin from time to time that wake me up at night!!
Huh girls, I'm really sorry to hear this. I hate violence but mostly on women :-(
Stacy, if you feel the pain so long I suggest you to visit the doctor, because it could be possible that you're injured worse then you thinks.
Stacy, if you feel the pain so long I suggest you to visit the doctor, because it could be possible that you're injured worse then you thinks.
my girlfriend got kicked between her legs very hard once and was in alot of pain for about a week so went to the doctors luckly she had no long time damage. but i think u shold get urself checked out cos if u leave it it might only make things worse.
Hi all! I was also kicked really hard last night when I went to a rock concert. I was just passing by when guys started jumping and kickin’. One of them kicked me so hard with his boot. I felt the pain then but not like this morning when I woke up. It must be alcohol that made me less sensitive.
I’ve been hurting all day today, my vulva is swollen and red.
Why do you think this should be checked? What could go wrong?
I’ve been hurting all day today, my vulva is swollen and red.
Why do you think this should be checked? What could go wrong?
If she kick him for no reason and he reported it she could do some time in jail!!!And true.......A kick in the vulva can produce horific debilitating pain in women! o.O
When I was in college I played on the women soccer team. I was kicked square between the legs with a lot of force, and I could not get up off the field for ten minutes and did not play for two weeks. My vulva was swollen, and very painful. the doctor said I suffered a major hemotoma, and I had to apply ice for a week. It even affected me walking, sitting, very painful but no permanent injury.
The flesh between a women legs, the vulva, is very sensitive to begin with but a forceful hit will and does cause severe and lasting pain and your gyno should check you just to make sure there is not other damage.
The flesh between a women legs, the vulva, is very sensitive to begin with but a forceful hit will and does cause severe and lasting pain and your gyno should check you just to make sure there is not other damage.
Hmmm if the vulva is sensitive to pain, as you all say then why is it that girls always go around boasting that they can't feel pain if they are hit between the legs?
I see it happen frequently around here. Girls, especially in the high school level go around kicking innocent boys in the testicles and then dance around and say that the boy can't hurt them back because a kick in the vulva would not hurt them.
I see it happen frequently around here. Girls, especially in the high school level go around kicking innocent boys in the testicles and then dance around and say that the boy can't hurt them back because a kick in the vulva would not hurt them.
I took a hard kick in my womanhood in karate and it droped me hard in such the most excruciating pain I ever felt in my life!!So horiffic I thought I was going to passout!!!I cryed alot with pain for 2 weeks but after that the pain was gone.
It was such a traumatic experience O.M.G. I just hope I have no enjurys that show up latter in life!! o.O o.O
It was such a traumatic experience O.M.G. I just hope I have no enjurys that show up latter in life!! o.O o.O
About a week ago me and my boyfriend go into an argument and he ended up walking up grabbing my shoulders to anchor me and knee'd me as hard as he could in the vagina. He did this because people have created the myth that only guys can get hurt from getting hit in the groin. Instead of getting better it just keeps getting more and more painful. Just walking or standing hurts and bending is unthinkable, lets not talk about the difficulty of getting up or down from the toilet. My entire left side and upper area is badly bruised in all the colors u could imagine and the swelling has gone from everywhere to a concentrated spot creating a very ugly mess of my vagina. When I touch it there's an enormous lump in the right lip/vulva. The whole point is, I've been doing research because I can't afford a doctor and it seems that our only hope is ice. If the bleeding is to severe a doctor can drain it but then again, ice. I've found that baths help. It feels better when soaking in the warm water. I do find myself becoming more and more immobile so expect that. Furthermore, since it happened he wants to have intercourse and on day 3 I tried it but woke up the next morning miserable so a heads up it might be awhile.
My boyfriend and I was having an argument in the car. He got so fed up that he stopped the car in the middle of nowhere and pushed me out. Then he knocked my head against the tree......, and pulled my legs over the tree trunk. I was wearing a bikini so he tore that off before he did it. What made it so unbearable was that a 5 cm long, 2 cm thick piece of bark punchured my clitoris. He even left me there to rot. Luckily I was saved by a few cyclers about 10 minutes later.
I saw him again and before he could say anything, I held his testicles and crushed them in my hands. But then he also squeezed my breasts and I let go of his nuts. Then he used his leg and pushed my legs wide open and pushed his thumb in to my vagina. Everyone in the pub started accusing him and he left. When I went to the doctor, he sakes that the injury was serious, partly because I was hit just a week before. Now I can't even have kids, and although I never saw him again, I hope I squeezed his balls so hard he couldn't have kids too.
I saw him again and before he could say anything, I held his testicles and crushed them in my hands. But then he also squeezed my breasts and I let go of his nuts. Then he used his leg and pushed my legs wide open and pushed his thumb in to my vagina. Everyone in the pub started accusing him and he left. When I went to the doctor, he sakes that the injury was serious, partly because I was hit just a week before. Now I can't even have kids, and although I never saw him again, I hope I squeezed his balls so hard he couldn't have kids too.
I hope you get this guy arrested. He sounds like a complete as****e and should be charged for domestic violence. This is the most ridiculous story I have heard about a couple fighting. You should have cut off his balls! I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. There are some serious m****s out there. The vulva is the most sensitive area in your body and injury is not to be taken lightly. It can give you some serious long term problems down the road like a neuroma that develops into cancer. Or you could develop a stress related skin disorder, like lichen planus or lichen schlerosis which makes healing even worse since they are incurable. Try to do the best you can to keep your skin healthy down there. Try sitz baths and using ointment on your clitorus. I hope you removed the bark?? And the next time you see your ex ( I hope he's your ex at this point!!!! ) you should just do something awful that you can get away with. Like sticking a piece of bark up his ass and see how well he recovers from that!
if it was a man who was getting kicked in the genitals, would it be considered "terrible violence"? no, it would be considered funny. If it was a woman who kicked him, she would be considered heroic.
I kicked my girlfriend in the vagina once during a bad argument we were having. Before you judge my actions, she had thrown a glass ashtray at my head beforehand, which left a pretty severe gash. For about a week after that, she had trouble sitting down, going to the bathroom, and did NOT want to have sex. But i eventually it got better, she never went to the doctor. The best thing you can do is ice, and not complain to much about it, sh*t happens.