i had my 3 termination in oct 2009, due to it not being the right time my boyfriend had mainly decided we should have a termination. we had a medical termination and straight away after it i regretted every minute of it. i was constantly bleeding for 12 weeks after it sometimes it was light sometimes it had clots and was very heavy. i attented the docs a few times and they supplied me with hormone balancing tablets as they said thats all it was. Eventually it stopped a few days befor christmas. i am so relieved that the blood stopped as it was very stressful and constantly reminded me of the regret i hav for having the termination. Now i really want to have a baby due to the regret i feel everyday, i have read that hormone inbalance can cos u to b infertile and im so worried about that. how quickly can i get pregnant if i still can?
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I'm sorry this is not really answering your question, and I'm sorry if this annoys you and it's just an observation but are you sure a baby's the answer? I'm only saying this because I know what your going through and sometimes you need to take a step back and see the bigger picture. I know you are trying to make things better again but are you sure having a baby is the way to go? You probably feel like you need to fill an empty space inside of you and another baby is the answer. But is it really fair bringing a child into a world which, even you must of agreed at one point, isn't ready for a baby. Think of the opportunities it is closing for yourself and the child.
If you have thought about this and still want a baby, I wish you the best of luck in conceiving and best wishes for the future.
If you have thought about this and still want a baby, I wish you the best of luck in conceiving and best wishes for the future.
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