I dont know if I am still a virgin and it really bothers me. The first time I had sex, I asked a guy not to insert his penis all the way in so i would still be a virgin. He only put the head inside and I wasnt bleeding. The second time we were trying to do the same thing again but it didnt work out because i was in pain whenever he was trying to enter me. Then he decieded to finger me, and it didn't hurt at all but one moment with both felt like something was popped inside of me. Its wasnt painful and I wasn't bleeding either, but I was scared that it was my cherry. Am I still a virgin?
Some people do not bleed, or atleast not noticably when the hymen is broken. However as to whether you are a virgin or not? I am unsure, i don't think theres a good way to tell without having sex completely for the first time and asking your mate.