i have the same problem. like im 16 and ive been fingered before a bunch of times. and im thinking of sex with this guy im with. but he fingered me yesterday and it was hard but its like ive had done before. and i bled a lot. and i still have spots on my underwear today. and i know its not my period cuz i finished last week. and so im nervous cuz if its like this with fingering will i bleed with sex too? and why did i bleed so much??
I have the exact same problem what shall i do ? what does this mean please help x
this guy fingered me the other night and i bled loads! it was like i was on my period.. was this just because it was my first time being fingered that hard, or will this happen everytime im fingered?
also, does it mean im still a virgin, cuzz i havent had sex, but im guessing the bleeding was my hymen breaking.
also, does it mean im still a virgin, cuzz i havent had sex, but im guessing the bleeding was my hymen breaking.
Hi am 16 & my name is jeSSi and i am in a steady sexually active relationship of 9 months and the same thing happened to me.After my partner had been fingering me for months all the sudden i bled a little. I of course panicked but it can be normal to bleed a little after being fingered roughly. so i woundnt sweat it! but if it is consistant and it comes in big amount that could be extremly dangerous because it can cause infections.if your partner has big fingers i sugest you ask him to be more gentle. or check his nails because they might b too long and that could b athe problem so if your boyfriends nails are too long and thats the case it could b that he scratched you on the inside and that cut could get infected and that would be a problem.it could also bee that your hymens torn if the bleeding doesnt stop go to the doc. before he fingers you again to make sure its safe. if the bleeding happens every time he does it then you should also go to the doc.OR!
ALSO:It could be that your just tight and when HE fInGeRz you...
yOu arent lubricated enough in that case you NEEEDDDDD lubrication!!!!!!!!
if you cant afford lubrication oral sex is an option he could lubricate you by going down on you before he fingers you.
if that isnt an option i would make him stop but only if the bleeding doesnt stop!!! mkkay(=
my problem was the lubrication and im fine now i hope you all find out what is wrong i know how it feels to need to know whats wrong and have no answers so......
i hope this wasnt too foward anD it hElPs all of you.
ALSO:It could be that your just tight and when HE fInGeRz you...
yOu arent lubricated enough in that case you NEEEDDDDD lubrication!!!!!!!!
if you cant afford lubrication oral sex is an option he could lubricate you by going down on you before he fingers you.
if that isnt an option i would make him stop but only if the bleeding doesnt stop!!! mkkay(=
my problem was the lubrication and im fine now i hope you all find out what is wrong i know how it feels to need to know whats wrong and have no answers so......
i hope this wasnt too foward anD it hElPs all of you.
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If she has already had sex with him then he would have already broken her hymen. The same thing is happening to me, I'm bleeding after he fingered me. It could be as simple as a tear in the wall of your vagina or it could be more serious. If it keeps happening, talk to a doctor.
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i have already had sex with my partner. and recently he fingered me and i was bleeding. what does this mean? should i be scared.??
he probally popped your cherry
its completly normal, i sometimes spot after i get fingered.
If she has already had sex with him then he would have already broken her hymen. The same thing is happening to me, I'm bleeding after he fingered me. It could be as simple as a tear in the wall of your vagina or it could be more serious. If it keeps happening, talk to a doctor.
so, my bf had fingered me many times and i have had a small amount of bleeding once or twice which i assumed was just my hymen tearing a bit, but last time, when he took his fingers out, there was a TON of blood, it got everywhere, soo i thought it was be my period and i just got really unlucky with the timing. but its been a whole day since, and i havent had any blood since i washed after that incident, so im getting a bit confused/worried. could it be that the pressure fro him fingering me cause me to partially have my period? because am expecting it in a few days, or is it more likely soem kind of injury?
please help me!!
ive been with my bf for 3 months and im still a virgin.
however he has fingered me. the first few times he did it i was fine.
but the last 3 times he has done it i have bled. and its been quite a bit of blood. i thought the first time he may have broken my hymen. but a week later when he did it again it bled again. and another week later it bled again, his fingernails are short. but he does to it quite rough. please help? is this normal?
ive been with my bf for 3 months and im still a virgin.
however he has fingered me. the first few times he did it i was fine.
but the last 3 times he has done it i have bled. and its been quite a bit of blood. i thought the first time he may have broken my hymen. but a week later when he did it again it bled again. and another week later it bled again, his fingernails are short. but he does to it quite rough. please help? is this normal?
this is exactly what has happend to me to!!
what does it mean ? is it normal ? x
what does it mean ? is it normal ? x
I'm a virgin, but I been fingered a few times but a couple times ago, I started bleeding. Ever since then, anyone that puts there fingers up there including myself it bleeds. Whats wrongggggg with me this is stopping me from wanting to do this kinda thing >
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Ok... First of all you guys are wayyyy to young to be doing this stuff.... trust me i had my daughter when a was 17.... dont take the chance... but for your questions most likely one of his nails may have scratched you inside.
When your new boyfriend fingers you.... He must be doing it too hard, Tell him!
You would rather be fingered gently... The same exact thing happend to me... I have been fingered by other guys & nothing
happend except the very first time but thats normal. But I met this guy... & we became really close we dated for 6 months before
we had a sexual intercourse... He fingered me i started bleeding I thought I started my period.. But it would only last for like an hour.
I realized the difference he did it hard & his fingernails were long.
Hope it helps!!
Bye :P
You would rather be fingered gently... The same exact thing happend to me... I have been fingered by other guys & nothing
happend except the very first time but thats normal. But I met this guy... & we became really close we dated for 6 months before
we had a sexual intercourse... He fingered me i started bleeding I thought I started my period.. But it would only last for like an hour.
I realized the difference he did it hard & his fingernails were long.
Hope it helps!!
Bye :P
hey im a 16 year old girl, i recently had sex for the first time a month ago, and had light spotting afterwards, but the next few times me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and hes fingered me, i've had some light spotting too. what does this mean? im getting so freaked out!
maybe your boyfriends have long sharp fingernails lol tell them to wash their hands also.. lol
maybe your boyfriends have long sharp fingernails lol tell them to wash their hands also.. lol o.O
seriously....your only 15...and you've been fingered by multiple guys already...girl you need to stop doing that.