Most of you girls have probably had your hymens partially torn, this is nothing serious and happens more often than you would expect, as you can tell from the large amount of you ive seen here talking about a painless bleeding of the vagina, this like i said is most likely due to the fact that when your boyfriend fingers you he comes in contact with the hymen and causes a slight or partial penetration that bleeds for a few days before stopping, this most likely will happen until your hymen has been completely broken
my gf everytime i finger her she bleeds but when i dont shes fine should she be scared??
ive had sex with 2 other guys and my new boyfriend was fingering me and i started bleeding, did he cut something or is this serious?11
ive had 2 other boyfriends that i had sex with so im no where close to a virgin but my new boyfriend was fingering me and i was bleeding, did he cut me or should i be scared?
Hello Ladies,
It is true, you all are pretty young to be going too far. Most guys are very immature that young as well. Once piece of advice...wait until college.
On another note! I am dating a guy for 6 months and we started playing lightly after about 3 months and then the 4th month came around and we were at his place. He was fingering me after he ate me out so I was very lubricated and I am a girl who fancies the fast and hard. Our biggest problem with foreplay was that I could never get off, but on this magical day I did purely on him fingering me. After I released on his hand....he kept going a little bit. I was a virgin, by the way. When a female is aroused she expands internally and then after releasing from the pleasure it in a way, shrinks. Because he kept going after I released he happened to hit my hymen. He has nicely trimmed nailed and they aren't very long so I know it wasn't from being cut or else I would have been cut in the past. After I reminded him I was done...he pulled his hands out and with concern asked if I was okay because there was blood. I myself being confused, but in the end knowing it was only one thing. He had torn my hymen and I was unsure how much was torn but since I felt lack of remorse for it being gone....we just ended up having sex. We're still dating and things are fine and dandy but I recommend you taking in what I said if it applies to you. That is: Being a virgin and him continuing to pleasure you AFTER you release causing bleeding and you know his nails are neatly groomed is a sign of him hitting your hymen. Don't be alarmed. I don't bleed anymore and if you do, he may have not torn it all the way but after bleeding for too long then you really should get yourself checked out.
On another note! I am dating a guy for 6 months and we started playing lightly after about 3 months and then the 4th month came around and we were at his place. He was fingering me after he ate me out so I was very lubricated and I am a girl who fancies the fast and hard. Our biggest problem with foreplay was that I could never get off, but on this magical day I did purely on him fingering me. After I released on his hand....he kept going a little bit. I was a virgin, by the way. When a female is aroused she expands internally and then after releasing from the pleasure it in a way, shrinks. Because he kept going after I released he happened to hit my hymen. He has nicely trimmed nailed and they aren't very long so I know it wasn't from being cut or else I would have been cut in the past. After I reminded him I was done...he pulled his hands out and with concern asked if I was okay because there was blood. I myself being confused, but in the end knowing it was only one thing. He had torn my hymen and I was unsure how much was torn but since I felt lack of remorse for it being gone....we just ended up having sex. We're still dating and things are fine and dandy but I recommend you taking in what I said if it applies to you. That is: Being a virgin and him continuing to pleasure you AFTER you release causing bleeding and you know his nails are neatly groomed is a sign of him hitting your hymen. Don't be alarmed. I don't bleed anymore and if you do, he may have not torn it all the way but after bleeding for too long then you really should get yourself checked out.
Also signs of itching: make sure his hands are clean, he isn't going down there with hands that may have touched something to cause you to be allergic or just being unclean in general. I've heard of lubricants, creams and even condoms causing allergic reactions so make sure you're careful. Or you can also have a urinary tract infection apparently as long as it isn't 'burning'. Burning is more of a sign of a sexually transmitted disease. Hope this helps, girls. Good luck!
I have had a similar problem. I only bled a little brownish blood. I also have burning when i urinate now. How long should I wait to try fingering again? And if i nicked myself will it cause an infection?
hey i think ur bleeding again because your partner may have cut or irratated your vagina. also if you shave your vagina regularly , when the pubs start to grow back it causes itchiness. nothing to worry about.
i'm having the same problem. I got fingered and right after i had to use the restroom and im bleeding. and my stomach hurts.. and it really hurts to go pee also it burns..... Whats wrong;(
First you need to find a guy who isn't trying to kill you when he's fingering you. It's supposed to be an act of love not violence. If your stomach hurts he must have been slamming you pretty hard. Were you paying attention to what he was doing? Did he stick his whole fist in there, or try to?
You have to wait for it to heal up. Urine really burns when it gets in a cut and that's want you have.
i done the same thing and my girl is prego and im stressing i want to know if the pain she is haveing will go awayy what is going on
I fingered myself last night and I bleed a bit. Then tonight i fingered myself again and i bleed quiet a bit. But i stopped as soon as i finished.
Does it mean i've popped my cherry? I'm scared i haven't popped it fully and it'll never pop when i have sex. :(
I have the same problem!
maybe all the girls this is happening to got an std or something, people have germs on the hands too, or you might've torn something.
MAYBE, now call me crazy, but MAYBE you tore something? or an std. either way, you should learn how to spell instead of worrying about SEX!
Hi I'm 16 and for the past like...6 times my boyfriend has fingered me, i've had bleeding like during the fingering. I have absolutely no idea what's wrong with me and it's scaring both of us. Pleaseeeeeeeee help.