I have never had intercourse, I have masturbated with one finger a few times. So, I was in my periods, and it ended two days ago. Yesterday, I masturbated with my finger and then I saw blood. Does this mean that I lost my verginity ? I am concerned about because in my culture when girl does not have blood at the first night of marriage, she gets a bad reputation. Pls help Asap
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You did not say exactly what you did with your finger when masturbating, but you can check the state of your hymen with a hand-mirror.
This is a typical hymen
- http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/sites/default/files/files/styles/large/public/field/image/hymen_virginal.jpg
There are variations.
I hope this helps as a start.
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Although technically she didn't lose her virginity, in some cultures the hymen is equated with virginity. The hymen is sometimes called the maidenhead. So, as the questioner indicated, if the hymen is absent, the girl's reputation is worsened. A show of blood on the wedding night is expected of a virgin. If there is no blood (assumed from the hymen rupturing), there can be doubt about her virginity.
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Is it possible that hymen recovers ? or that hymen will be destroyed artially ?I am very affraid.
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Yes, it is possible that the hymen could be partially ruptured. I slight tear could produce blood, and that tear could heal.
Have you checked the state of your hymen yet?
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i tried, but I am confused. i saw some pictures of broken hymen and I think that mine was not like that, because with mirror I saw a small vagina hole. But in pictures there were big holes. I am confused because I also saw some pictures that show unbroken hymen, and mine was not like that too. Also, in my vagina hole I saw some light tissue, in a white and a bit of pink color. I
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Ok, I examined for the second time and now I think that my hymen is maybe Cribriform , because I cannot see my vaginal hole, it is covered with pink tissue and has holes, also there is a hole under that tissue. Am I right ? Is that tissue the hymen ?
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It seems to me, from the way you describe it, that the tissue you see is your hymen, but I am not sure what you mean by "also there is a hole under that tissue". (Remember that a lot of the pictures are of Caucasians. Darker skinned women would likely have darker pink membranes.)
Could the 'white' element mentioned earlier be discharge?
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It could be that your hymen is tough and inelastic. Or it could be that you have an infection or some minor damage. Is there anyone you can trust implicitly who could examine you? Where are you from?
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I am from Armenia. I am 18. I mean under the tissue there is another hole, that from there my lubrication came. There is not infection, because 3 months ago I went to gynecologist, she examined, and everything was Fine. Actually, I do not have anyone, whom I can trust to examine me
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Or could it be that my menstruation was not ended , and after one day pause, it lasted another day .And was it coincidence that after masturbation there was blood ?
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