I know that hypertrophy of labia minora is normal thing and very common. I have been living with it for a couple of time and I didn’t pay much attention to it, but now I am thinking about starting my sex-life (I am 19, most of my friend have started their sex-life at 17-18 ) but I am afraid because I don’t know how my boyfriend is going to react . I mean what if he freaks out? Don’t get me wrong, is not huge but still it makes me feel ugly. Is there anyone that had the same problem? Please help me!
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Hey,
Yes, I think it could and will make you problems with your sex life. But take a look from my point of view.
Hypertrophy of labia minora refers to the condition in which a woman’s labia are longer than normal. But what does it mean longer then normal? What is defined as normal or in other words what is defined as attractive? It depends on what people are accustomed to see.
In USA many males and a lot of females have had their aesthetic sensibilities shaped by the glistening vulvas featured in the pages of sex magazine like Penthouse. In those magazines the labias by models are showed as very nice and perfectly symmetric, therefore every what differs from this is acclaimed as abnormal. My opinion is that the labia but also other kinds of beauty standards are in the eye of the beholder. For example, by some African cultures the long labia lips were a thing of beauty and intense erotic power.
Today you have a possibility to reduce the labia lips by surgical intervention called labiaplasty. This reduction started by some rich American ladies and now all female Hollywood is willing to pay to reduce they labias to look so small and symmetric like by porn divas.
This is routine surgical method and is very common in last few years. Now it’s your choice. If you like your labia – leave it as is, if not - then prepare a couple of bucks more for labiaplasty.
However, I love my body, any part of it and personally I would never do any kind of correction because other people are saying it’s not “normal”. I would do it only if I’m not satisfied with how I look like.
Think about it ...
Yes, I think it could and will make you problems with your sex life. But take a look from my point of view.
Hypertrophy of labia minora refers to the condition in which a woman’s labia are longer than normal. But what does it mean longer then normal? What is defined as normal or in other words what is defined as attractive? It depends on what people are accustomed to see.
In USA many males and a lot of females have had their aesthetic sensibilities shaped by the glistening vulvas featured in the pages of sex magazine like Penthouse. In those magazines the labias by models are showed as very nice and perfectly symmetric, therefore every what differs from this is acclaimed as abnormal. My opinion is that the labia but also other kinds of beauty standards are in the eye of the beholder. For example, by some African cultures the long labia lips were a thing of beauty and intense erotic power.
Today you have a possibility to reduce the labia lips by surgical intervention called labiaplasty. This reduction started by some rich American ladies and now all female Hollywood is willing to pay to reduce they labias to look so small and symmetric like by porn divas.
This is routine surgical method and is very common in last few years. Now it’s your choice. If you like your labia – leave it as is, if not - then prepare a couple of bucks more for labiaplasty.
However, I love my body, any part of it and personally I would never do any kind of correction because other people are saying it’s not “normal”. I would do it only if I’m not satisfied with how I look like.
Think about it ...
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If your boyfriend freaks out there's something wrongw/ him not you! And don't feel ugly there are alot of US men who LOVE labia minora to be out past the labia majora. I think it looks beutifull!! There are a lot like me that thinks that way, right here in America. Don't let somebody who chooses the girls for porn mags, and airbushes them, make you feel bad about youself!!
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Baby don't worry about it i have Hypertrophy of labia minora and theres no threat to my sex life. I am an exotic dancer also alot of men love it and others don't. More men like it that the ones who don't. Embrace your self for being diffrent. You need to feel more secure abut yourself and men will see that ur secure with it so they will feel secure.
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Hi, I have a new partner who has labial hypertrophy and I think it is very sexy. But does it have less sensativity than a regular, more internal labia minora? Some tips would be helpful, thanks!
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Listen,
you shouldn't be so worried about what he's gonna think. I've been with men and women, and I have to say, that men are so NOT concerned with that.
Men like boobs, and butt, and the thing they really like about your crotch, is not how it looks, trust me.
If you notice, all of the people being critical about this thing are women, women who are insecure about their labia because of the images put forth.
You shouldn't go cutting yourself up about something started by porn-stars unless you want to be one. Porn stars also bleach their anus skin, but I think you and I both know that since that area is naturally pigmented darker for just about everyone, it's not an issue.
If your boyfriend loves you, then he will love ALL of you, and if he doesn't, then he doesn't deserve your attention anyway because no one's perfect and unless you're loved completely, it's not gonna last anyway.
I think that you know though, since you haven't even gotten a reaction yet, that this is completely and totally about you learning to love yourself, because I look around, and all I see is women hating themselves and picking themselves apart (figuratively and literally) every day.
you shouldn't be so worried about what he's gonna think. I've been with men and women, and I have to say, that men are so NOT concerned with that.
Men like boobs, and butt, and the thing they really like about your crotch, is not how it looks, trust me.
If you notice, all of the people being critical about this thing are women, women who are insecure about their labia because of the images put forth.
You shouldn't go cutting yourself up about something started by porn-stars unless you want to be one. Porn stars also bleach their anus skin, but I think you and I both know that since that area is naturally pigmented darker for just about everyone, it's not an issue.
If your boyfriend loves you, then he will love ALL of you, and if he doesn't, then he doesn't deserve your attention anyway because no one's perfect and unless you're loved completely, it's not gonna last anyway.
I think that you know though, since you haven't even gotten a reaction yet, that this is completely and totally about you learning to love yourself, because I look around, and all I see is women hating themselves and picking themselves apart (figuratively and literally) every day.
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I was looking for a different topic here this morning but this post caught my eye and my ire. Striving for the unattainable image of female perfection is a never ending cycle. The media keeps coming up with expensive ways to turn us all into plastic. It's all about separating you from your money and making you submissive. Why let some faceless entity on Madison Avenue dictate how you look? Would you stand for it from your significant other? What if your boyfriend decided one day that your voluptuous curves that he's enjoyed for years, now don't appeal to him and he'd like you to change. You wouldn't undergo drastic weight loss just to hang on to him would you? Hopefully you'd cut him loose and move on. Do the same with the notion that your genitalia must conform to some media standard. My best advice is to please yourself. You could never ever please everyone else, and there is no reason for you even to try.
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My labia minora is quite big, and sometimes it can be a little unconfortable. Any advice on how to avoid that, especially after sex?
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I'm 16 years old, and I've noticed for the past few years that my labia minora is big on one side, but small on the other. The side that its extended on outstretches my labia majora. I haven't told my mom because that is just to personal for me to reveal to her, and I feel inadequate over it. I understand that everyone eye's different, and I'd sooner walk naked down new york than to get cosmetic surgery. But I'm wondering does it in fact impact on your sex life? I haven't had sex yet, but when I do, I want to know if this will not affect my sensations.
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i've had it all my life, and never knew it was an abnormality until recently. none of my boyfriends ever said a thing, and sex has always been great. so i'm gonna say.....no.
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hey!
I reaaallly understand what you are going through! i was just like that myself .. i really thought that a boy would just walk out on my if he saw me but recently i lost my virginity to my boyfriend and he really didn´t pay any attention to it at all! i was sooo surprised! i think the trick is just be confidence about yourself ... don´t think you are abnormal becouse you
aren´t !!! we are great and many guys loovvee big labias .. so pleeasse don´t worry!!
I reaaallly understand what you are going through! i was just like that myself .. i really thought that a boy would just walk out on my if he saw me but recently i lost my virginity to my boyfriend and he really didn´t pay any attention to it at all! i was sooo surprised! i think the trick is just be confidence about yourself ... don´t think you are abnormal becouse you
aren´t !!! we are great and many guys loovvee big labias .. so pleeasse don´t worry!!
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Hi sweetie.
Different sized labia is completely normal, if not common!!! Most woman have one labia bigger.
I was a nurse for years and saw alot of "lady part" I found it highly reassuring to know that there is NO "normal" woman!
...as a collegue once said to me "fannies are like faces, they're all different!"
Its true. Just like you face is unique, beautiful and different from everyone else, so are your "lady parts" :-)
You are very normal, you have NOTHING to worry about! We all have quirks, its what makes life fun! :-)
Different sized labia is completely normal, if not common!!! Most woman have one labia bigger.
I was a nurse for years and saw alot of "lady part" I found it highly reassuring to know that there is NO "normal" woman!
...as a collegue once said to me "fannies are like faces, they're all different!"
Its true. Just like you face is unique, beautiful and different from everyone else, so are your "lady parts" :-)
You are very normal, you have NOTHING to worry about! We all have quirks, its what makes life fun! :-)
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Hi sweetie.
Different sized labia is completely normal, if not common!!! Most woman have one labia bigger.
I was a nurse for years and saw alot of "lady part" I found it highly reassuring to know that there is NO "normal" woman!
...as a collegue once said to me "fannies are like faces, they're all different!"
Its true. Just like you face is unique, beautiful and different from everyone else, so are your "lady parts" Smile
You are very normal, you have NOTHING to worry about! We all have quirks, its what makes life fun! Smile
Different sized labia is completely normal, if not common!!! Most woman have one labia bigger.
I was a nurse for years and saw alot of "lady part" I found it highly reassuring to know that there is NO "normal" woman!
...as a collegue once said to me "fannies are like faces, they're all different!"
Its true. Just like you face is unique, beautiful and different from everyone else, so are your "lady parts" Smile
You are very normal, you have NOTHING to worry about! We all have quirks, its what makes life fun! Smile
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I have one, and it has stopped me going further with any men that I've liked. It makes me feel like a freak, but I have just found great comfort in reading this blog. I just wouldn't be able to handle it if someone was repulsed by it, and maybe told other people about it. Has this ever happened to anyone, can anyone give me advise?
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I am a 25 yr old lesbian, and if anything i think that it make increase my pleasure. Like everyone else I have been scared around new people but I have never had anyone react negativly, maybe just curious if anything.
I like to wear look jeans. Maybe this is why. I always said tight jeans hurt, but no one understood.
When a girl goes down on my and sucks... good stuff.
many other suggestions but I dont feel its right to say that stuff here. no loss of sensitivity, thats for sure
I like to wear look jeans. Maybe this is why. I always said tight jeans hurt, but no one understood.
When a girl goes down on my and sucks... good stuff.
many other suggestions but I dont feel its right to say that stuff here. no loss of sensitivity, thats for sure
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