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hi there can som one explain to me please? i am a tiny virgin girl. i was riding on my boyfriend's bike it was at night time. he could'nt stoped his bike on a speed breaker bcoz it was dark on that time and i hit the back seat so hard bcoz i was siting right behind him when he passed the speed breaker. but i started bleeding while i was on the bike. i dint realised it on that time but when i got home i saw the blood all over my pants.  i did bleed for couple of days and it stoped. it was'nt the time for my monthly period. my period was going to start after 10 days of the accident which happend to me on that night. .so the bottom line is could you guys explain to me what happend to me??? i mean how come i bleed ??? 
Hi Mitu,

It is possible that when you hit the seat hard that you tore your hymen.  It can happen, via trauma (such as this) or by physical activities, such as horseback riding.

Without an exam that would be my best guess.  Hope it helps.
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thank you for replying me back. i apprecaite it.

i forgot to ask you on my first mail that i had bleed in past couple of times before my period time and it stoped in couple of days. what was that all about?

hopfully it got nothing to do with my virginity but just wana fonfirm m i still a virgin after this accident ?

also i am a tiny girl and wana ask just incase if i want to loss my viginity in future so do i have to use some sort of cream so he can put it in me easily and shall not hurt me OR just do it with out the cream or lotion ?

does the condom works to get it in easily ?

i mean what's the best way to do it ? me and my boy friend we both are virgin.

how many days am i gonna bleed and how much bloody is it gonna be for the first time.

please explain to me. so it shouldnt be hard for me for my first time in future. thanks

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Hi Mitu,

This has nothing to do with your virginity.  If you haven't had sex, you're still a virgin.

The bleeding you see may be ovulation bleeding. Was it fairly light?

You don't really need any cream, you might want more lube, when you first have sex.  Foreplay will help, it gets you both ready, as in wet, and looser.  Your partner should take his time too.  Communication will make it more enjoyable and less painful.  Don't assume he knows what he's doing, and he shouldn't assume what you like as well.

Use a condom.  It is the only effective means of preventing STD's.  It is also very effective in preventing pregnancies.

I can't answer how long you might bleed, you may not bleed at all.

Hope it helps.
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