Hello ladies I had sex with this guy and my test came back positive in 2007 or 2008. Then again by the same guy in 2010. I have been getting pain in my lower abdomen pain and online it says it could be my uterus or my ovaries. I am scared that once I go and get tested it will say positive, get tested and I be unable to have children because the pain I am having is due to it. I am scarred and nervous. I do not want children right now being 24 but eventually I do……what to do…
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I'm just reading your post and it's over a year ago since you've posted this, but to be honest you have to tell him. You don't want him to pass judgement over you, no, however if he truely loves you then he will not judge you and he'll understand. One the other hand I know you are/were scared to go to the doctor but you need to go ASAP because you need to get this taken cared of and another reason you need to tell your partner is because he needs to be tested too. You said your not sure of which partner gave it to you; so to be on the safe sid tell the other partner and your partner so they both can get tested and treated. Not telling either partner is the cause of this kind of thing getting spreaded around. Me personally my fiancee knew immediately once I came from the doctor's visit. I'm sort of an open book. As I explained to my doctor that I've never been w/ anyone since we've been together in almost 3 years and get tested every 6 months faithfully, and in my heart of hearts I can't beleive that he has cheated either. She explained to me that in rare cases results can show up as being a false positive, but I still needed to get treated just in case and he needed to be tested and treated also. So when I told him yes, he was upset for about a day, but we have a rule about being angry with each other for more than one day. It can't happen! so he we and was tested and treated and his test came back negative. Then he was really angry because he, but then he thought about it we've had unprotected sex numerous times since between the times he and I was tested and his results were negative. I said all this to say communication is key with this type of situation and you don't want some other woman and/or yourself to suffer because you were scared to have this conversation with your partner(s).
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Hey , ive recently had chlamydia myself and so did my partner the waybi got rid of it is by regular swabs of your vagina and one course of azrithomycin , yes having chlamydia will stop u from getting pregnant...
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ive had chlamydia on and off for 3 years, i saw my dr and told her i wantd to get pregnant and she said it takes time for the vagina to heal. in the meantime she has me takin prenatal vitamins to get things back to normal
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I had chlamydia about 7 years ago and actually was dating my husband at the time, we both took the antibiotic and were clear of it. We got married about three years ago and have been trying to get pregnant since, but it has not happened. I have been through several tests and have found out my tubes are block and can only attribute it to the chlamydia. I am going in next month to see if they can remove the adhesions from my tubes and I am hoping that the scarring is not too extensive. I do have to say though, do not hesitate to get tested and treat this because it is really affecting me now. I was pretty traumatized about this STD when I found out I had it but now it is devastating to have the reality that I may not be able to have my own children. I have been thinking about adoption but it is just not the same. I just would really encourage young women to get tested regularly and do not be afraid because it will prevent serious devastation later.
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Hello . Umm I had Chlamydia at 16 & now im 18 . I think I had it for a year I was on birth control at the time and just recently got off . I'm so worried I can't have kids I cry at night even tho im not trying right now . It's just the fact im hurt cause I think when it's time to try I want be able to have something imma want in my life . I pray that i can even if god gives me one child in my life . Could you tell me if i still have a chance plz I WISH YOU ALL LUCK & GODS BLESSINGS. JOY WILL COME THANK YOU
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Leave him.. This is 2012 darling. We have to protect ourselves. His mother is a damn fool for telling him that. Thank God it was chalmydia you caught the 1st and 2nd time and not HIV. I tell myself this all the time. 8 years ago my ex gave it to me after we had our daughter. I had no idea until we broke up. My doctor told me it was possibly laying dormen. I can safely assume that this is the reason I am not able to get pregnant now. I shared this story with my fiance and it was not easy at first. I felt ashamed and he didnt make me feel any better however we made it through things.
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I AM A YOUNG LADY WHO JUST GOT PREGNANT THINKING BECAUSE I HAD CHLAMYDIA I COULDNT GET PREGNANT THATS WRONG I HAD IT THREE YEARS SO THERE IS STILL A CHANCE I NEVER CHECKED TO SEE IF MY TUBES WERE BLOCKED OR ANYTHING BUT AS U SEE THERE FINE. SO DONT GIVE UP HOPE BECAUSE IF ITS MENT TO BE IT WILL BE IF YOU NEED MORE ADVICE YOU CAN EMAIL ME AT _[removed]_ THANK YOU GUYS
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The laproscopy would definately show if the early infection had caused any damage. I just had one and never knew I had had chlamydia until after - it was real shock as I only had a few boyfriends before my husband and thought I'd been careful.
But in you have no reason to feel guilty, as chlamydia damages the tubes or uterus in ways which the tests you've had would show up (as that are what these tests are designed for). So as your results have come back clear you don't need to worry that the infection was the cause.
Please don't feel guilty - as that is just another stress factor which you don't need. It sounds to me as though stress really is the cause of your problems - so try to worry less.
But in you have no reason to feel guilty, as chlamydia damages the tubes or uterus in ways which the tests you've had would show up (as that are what these tests are designed for). So as your results have come back clear you don't need to worry that the infection was the cause.
Please don't feel guilty - as that is just another stress factor which you don't need. It sounds to me as though stress really is the cause of your problems - so try to worry less.
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IT IS AT THESE TIMES WHEN WE MUST SEEK OTHER HELP....HONEY IT'S TIME TO PRAY AND ASK GOD TO GIVE YOU SOME PEACE THERE ARE ALOT OF THINGS GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND YOU NEED TO GIVE IT OVER TO THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN HELP AND GIVE YOU PEACE. KEEPING SECRETS ONLY HURTS YOU MORE BECAUSE YOU ARE CONSTANTLY FIGHTING TO KEEP THEM HIDDEN.... TALK TO YOUR PASTOR AND MOST OF ALL YOUR DOCTOR.....BECAUSE OF HIPPA LAWS SHE/HE CANNOT DISCUSS WITH YOUR HUSBAND WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT. CONFIDE IN YOUR OBGYN AND LET THEM KNOW WHAT HAPPENED SO THAT THEY WILL KNOW WHAT TO TEST FOR....WITH YOU SCHOOL PRAY EACH DAY B4 YOU ENTER AND PRAY FOR THE FAMILIES THAT YOU MAY COME IN CONTACT WITH THAT AT ANY ENCOUNTER YOU WILL RESPOND WITH PEACE LOVE AND COMPASSION....SOMETIMES PPL ARE ANGRY WITH THE WORLD BECAUSE OF THEIR SITUATIONS SO JUST TRY TO MAKE THEM FEEL AS COMFORTABLE AS POSSIBLE TO TALK TO YOU....I HOPE THIS HELPS AND MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS AND KEEP YOU AND GIVE YOU PEACE....I'LL BE PRAYING FOR YOU AS I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME SITUATION AND I AM 33 DESPEARATE TO HAVE A CHILD BUT BECAUSE OF MY PAST IT SEEMS IMPOSSIBLE BUT I MUST HAVE FAITH....BUT I DO HAVE CUSTODY OF A RELATIVE'S CHILD AND I LOVE HIM LIKE MY OWN SO MAYBE THIS WAS GOD'S WAY OF GIVING ME A CHILD WITHOUT ME ACTUALLY HAVING ONE...THIS CHILD REALLY NEEDED ME AND HAD I ALREADY HAD CHILDREN I MAY NOT HAVE BEEN THERE FOR HIM BUT I AM SO GLAD THAT I AM AND NOW HE WANTS A SISTER OR BROTHER.....
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I'm 34 now and never been pregnant ever!! I know it's not my exs because they now have kids and it's definitely not my boyfriend of 3 years because he has 4 children. Could it be untreated chlamydia? I've never been tested but plan on it as we do want a child together. Scary to think my chances at having a baby are shot due to my fear and ignorance. Wish me luck!!
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I want to get pregnant but i cant and i dnt know how long i had the STD...HERE'S MY STORY i had sex with this dude and one day i called and he said he was mad at me cause he had weird discharge coming out his penius...he ask me if i had anything and i told him no...cause i really didnt know if i did he set up a dr. appointment and stuff i was to scared to go because i was embarressed..and i neva got treated.So when i went to job corps and they took testest and they found out that i have clamydia i dont have any symptoms and they treated with powder type med. and they told me not to have sex for 2 weeks...but i am sexually active and i had sex...I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO IM ONLY 18 AND I DONT WANT TO WAIT TIL IM 30 GOING ON 40 JUS TO HAVE A BABY WHAT SHOULD I DO...
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I actually has Chlamydia a few months back and i think it was the warly stages. I am trying to get pregnant and no luck. I am having doubts and really worried. Is it me? Is it the Chlamydia. I keep gettin tested as usual and come out negative. What do I do? :-(
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