I have a vibrator and can still not cum what is wrong
Try waiting until you're alone, completely relaxed, maybe have a drink and set the mood, and pleasure yourself with a warm/hot bath and some comfortable clothes/robe/sheets.
You might also read up on it in "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson.
or "The Guide for Getting it On" by Paul Joannides
or "Sex is Fun" by Kidder Kaper.
Good luck.
You might also read up on it in "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson.
or "The Guide for Getting it On" by Paul Joannides
or "Sex is Fun" by Kidder Kaper.
Good luck.