Ever since i was young i flexed my penis and legs when i came. I did it during the whole time while masturbating . It felt better and made me cum quicker. i grew up in a house where nobody knocked the door so i always rushed myself to ejaculate. Holding my breath helped. Sex is hard because its almost impossible for me to cum during sex. i can only do it when im not wearing a condom and flex my body in ways that makes sex not fun. i only came using a girls vagina 4times. im 21. i've slept with a lot of women. but usually i was able to blame the condom for not being able to cum so i just got handjobs or blowjobs after. But recently i was in japan. and slept with a girl who said she doesnt like when a guy can't cum with her. i've always had the feeling guys like when they can cum inside them (condom on) and i never could. i want to fix this!!! i tried just masturbating without flexing but then i cant cum. the longest i tried was a hour and 20minutes. i noticed my penis was getting numb so i stopped. (it actually got a bit swollen for a day) i will get close to cumming when i dont flex.b...ut if i dont flex i dont cum. Any Advice?!!?!
I try taking off all clothes and turning lights off with candles on, I also have some porn on my laptop. I slowly press my fingers down onto my clit and stroke the line of my vagina. I increase the speed until I feel like applying pressure near my clit and hump a pillow. Hope this helps!!!
Hi. sometimes it is hard to blow your load with a condom. It might be a good idea to masturbate with one from time to time, see how stiff you can keep it, and see how long it takes before you release the load. Watch porn if you have to. Learn how to keep it hard with a condom and shoot a few loads into them.
Sometimes sex ends with her jerking you off, that is life. I often finish by masturbating myself off or her lending a hand to choke it out of me. It can be stressful to wear a condom and also shoot your wad during sex, even masturbating into one can be a challenge.
There is nothing better than to finish up while inside her, but sometimes a ha****b finish is a very nice feeling. If she is willing to suck it out of you then that is also nice.
Try condoms that aren't quite as tight. And make her play with your balls often. Keep it stiff and just keep thinking about blowing your wad while banging away in between her legs. Think turned on thoughts.