i'm 17 years old and I can't get hard a second time. My girlfriend and I used to have sex over and over again no problem but now I can't stay hard enough the second time to have sex. It takes a lot to get me hard again and as soon as I do I immediately lose my erection. I have no clue why this is happening.
Hi Guest,
It is NORMAL for it to take a whle to get hard again after you've just had sex. It's called the "refractory" period. Basically your body is "recharging." It varies with age. It can be from just minutes to hours as you get older.
If you have any anxiety over not being able to get hard fast, it can also be a problem Anxiety will KILL an erection.
How's your general health? Are you using alcohol or anything else while having sex? They can contribute to erectile problems.