im 19 and my girlfriend and i recently began attempting to have sex. When we do however, my penis cannot penetrate her. she has been unable to insert a tampon during ovulation for her whole life. we have tried a few different positions (missionary, whatever the opposite of that is, and side to side.) maybe its possible that i am not inserting at the right angle, or taht my penis is not hard enough (i have been masturbating fairly frequently lately), or that she is too small, but i have heard that usually that is not the case. will not using a condom make is easier if she goes on birth control?, or maybe a new position will make it easier or maybe i need something to make my penis more hard. it is fairly frustrating because it makes me think well never be able to have sex with each other. what can i do i relaly need a solution we have tried on 3 separate occasions multiple times. thanks
Have you tried having her hold her lips open with her fingers, and have her spread her legs, too. That usually helps.
Good luck
Good luck
maybe you should do some foreplay before trying, this will make it very easy for you to get hard. Also, it doesn't matter if she is small, it should go in if shes wet enough. One last thing, maybe she is just scared and tenses up which causes her to constrict and make it difficult to go in
This used to happen to me too, my bf couldnt enter me, but then he fingered me before we had sex until he got at least three fingers in me and then he tried, and it worked, and yes, the angle that you enter is also important.
It sounds like your girl needs to relax. She's probably tensing up, so it's like trying to shove a toothbrush through a tightly clenched fist. Finger her and eat her for a while getting her right to the brink of orgasm before you try to penetrate her. Also, in my experience a lot of girls get really turned on in a 69, they seem to find it sexy and naughty sucking while getting licked, so try that before hand too.
I really cant help because i dont have much sexual experiance but try forplay. %-) ;-)
it might be that you are not hard enough and it might be that ur girlfriend is tens try fingering her first until u are sure she is relaxed and make sure u are as hard as you can be
Quite possibly both your penis and the tampons are blocked by your girlfriend's intact hymen. She should be examined to find out. You or a doctor can do this. If she lies on her back and pulls up and separates her knees you can then separate the lip and look at the entry to her vagina. Exploring gently with your finger, you will see whether the hymen, a membrane, has too small a hole to permit penetration. If that is the case, the hymen should be removed by a gynecologist, a painless procedure. You may wish to be present when this is done, which is feasible if she is not a minor.
Look, here's an old school thought for you 1st timers: Her virgna requires KY jelly products for her first penetration. Her virgna has never been open before, so lubricate the opening with some grease. It will make penetration easier for you and her. Remember the KY jelly first timers..